pooloflife Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted on here before[see previous posts] tonight found out were my ex lives with her new partner,i really want revenge on him for chasing her for so long ,how do i stop my self from doing him harm.I know it want change anything but i feel like i should have it out with him man to man.I accept its over between us ,just cant shift my focus from anger towards him,why am i blaming him so much,she was not dragged off.
River Rain Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 He did nothing to you. She did. Grow up and be a man. Real men don't resort to primitive violence. Accept and move on. Sorry for the tough love, but you're acting immature and the only thing to come of this is more hurt feelings all around and a possible criminal record. 1
Author pooloflife Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 That certainly told me,thanks rive rasin, you are right of course,i just cant seem to get the picture of them together out of my head,why does the thought of violence towards him make me feel better.I wont do anything stupid,i start a new job next week working for a mental health charity,certainly dont need a conviction for violence,and yes you are right i am acting immature,have managed for 4 weeks to keep it together,was upset this morning after my daughter told me she no longer understands her mum,keeop shifting blame to him,wish i did not feel like this,i will have to try to control my emotions better,thanks for straight talking.
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