StandOut Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 (edited) Hey guys just need some advice. I've been with this girl for about 4 years and 2 years in she became over the top jealous and controlling. She would check my phone questioned me about every girl who liked my statuses and I would tell her about it and it would just keep happening. One day I finally had enough and broke it off. She begged me for weeks after that but told her she needed to change for us to workout. About 8 months and various sexual encounters with he later I felt she changed, I asked her back out she took a week to think about it and we were together again. Now almost 2 years later things were starting to get bumpy again. We got into a big fight where I decided that it was better for us to take a break for a little while. Again she begged me for days after but I just wasn ready, a month and a half later she calls me one night a little buzzed that she wanted to see me. I agreed and we end up sleeping together again. This happen one more time and when she asked me that why couldn't we be together. I told her that at the moment it wasn't the right time to talk about it because we were both drunk and we could talk sometime this week. A week later I asked to lets talk to see if we can work things out. She said that right now she can't that I made her wait to long and that's she hurt. So I start sending flowers, gifts, the whole 9. till one day I find out she is talking to somebody else. I stop contacting for 3 days and she would send me random messages which I ignore but end up replying the next day. This went on for a while. Till one day I snapped and said listen I kno you talking to somebody else I don't want to be friends its to painful. More messages came. One day she sent me quote from out favorite movie and I asked her what was her intentions if she is talking with someone else already? She tells me that she is not with nobody and that she is not talking to the guy no more. So me being stupid and desperate started to ask her back out again she says not right now. I'm to hurt I don't want no guy in my life. But still she sends me random corny messages.ast week I go out drinking with some females friends of mine hoping to move on and she text me "I love you" I seen this as oppurtunity to invite her over to my house. We had sex and we gone out twice after that. But she is still telling me that she is to hurt to give me another chance right now and that she hold a grudge. I mean at one point she didnt want to talk to me let alone see me. Now she does. Any advice? Edited November 9, 2012 by StandOut To long
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