Vikki_26 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 First date last Thursday, texted me two days later. 2nd date organised for yesterday but he cancelled on Wednesday due to being ill. Said let me know if your well for this weekend and he said he will see how he feels. He takes ages to reply to texts but always leaves xxx after each one and when we do talk he asks questions. Really like this guy after first date but dunno if his just being kind, or if he does like me. ITs doing my head in not knowing!
Drseussgrrl Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Relax. You should be dating more than one guy right now anyway. Are you? You only had one date. Do you even know if you like HIM yet? Let him ask you out for the next date. Don't text or call him first. I don't ever really think it's a good sign when a guy cancels a date due to being "sick" without trying to reschedule, but that's just me.
Author Vikki_26 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Ah okay we have texted since but he takes ages to reply. Ill take it that his not interested then, maybe found someone else. Shame as he seemed real nice. I will keep looking on the dating site, no one I like the look of though except him.
Author Vikki_26 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 texted him asking if his feeling any better last night, and no reply. So I guess his not interested?
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 You shouldn't have texted him again, you need to wait for mutual interest. All you do by "keeping in touch" is let him know that your interest is available for selfish attention. Chances are he was likely not even sick, I can almost guarantee you if it was his friends he would have felt just fine. If he was truly sick then wouldn't he at least tried to stay in contact...but really that's a long shot that he was even suddenly sick, that would be atypical. His slow reply rate also likely means he has limited interested...xxx means nothing either. Don't become overly interested and expect a lot of men you just meet, realize you need to get to know to understand their true character, so everything you're into right now is just highly superficial and extremely naive and just infatuation. So don't get too down, practice detaching more easily or these guys that are not interested in you will see an opportunity to string you along for their own needs. I say this knowing that even if he takes his sweet time you'll likely still meet him because you're interested ....I can only do so much 1
Author Vikki_26 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 Thank you, I will do as you say He texted this evening asking how I was and I asked if his feeling better which he said he was. Odd so late a reply so i do have my guard up now.
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