Krang Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 To get back to the very start of this subject, i don't agree that very attractive people sit alone in bars or clubs, with the exception of me (I don't do it anymore now, it was making me look like a fool), because the people i see sitting alone, are old guys or maybe young-ish average looking guys. In the weekend, i see a good abundance of very attractive guys or girls in groups, in the city streets, they usually are popular, they usually do have social circles and have already probably had a few sexual partners by the time they are 20, so don't magnify the lonliness factor in hot people, because it can't be that common. If you read my earlier post about my lack of social skills, you don't really know how withdrawn i was at High School unless you seen me there. It was that bad. That's why i've never had a girlfriend, because i found it hard to mix with anyone. An extreme case!! Despite being very attractive myself, i don't fit in as you're stereotypical very attractive guy. I do see a lot of very attractive guys myself as big-headed, and boast about their sexual conquests, or just behave laddish ( like being manly and crude about women), with superior social life's than mine's. I've never boasted about my looks or be laddish, I never have big arguments with people. And how do i know i'm very attractive? I just have to look around. In the streets, women/guys looking at me, guys glaring at me (jealous?), nervous body language from women, the best looking woman working at the bar eyeing me up. I didn't just think on my own one day i was hot, it's what i see around me, which can be a bit over the top ( as in the number of people staring at me). At High, i didn't feel hot, hardly anyone talked about my looks, but when they did it was "gorgeous". I just thought i was quite good looking for most of my life, until the odd behaviour around me (well, i thought it was odd) just did not add up. The point is, i'm wasting my potential and my social record is truly awful. I'm going to do something about it. Very attractive people are a minority, but i don't recognise with other very attractive males, so you could say i'm a minority within a minority.
vhshowdown Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 I just read some of this thread. I have found from experience dating very attractive women can be bothersome at times. EVERYONE hits on them!! I was out with my ex girlfriend one nite, in a dance club, which was a meat market, but even so, I go to the restroom, and come back and some dude is sitting in my stool. She didnt want anything to do with him, but come on!! Like I said it gets old.......... My brother and I were coming back from Las Vegas last weekend, and there was a very attractive woman in the security line by herself. It just so happened she was on our flight, so as we are waiting in line to board the plane, sure enough 3 or 4 different guys try to get next to her and talk to her, etc... All of them got shot down too. But someone else on this thread wrote that their personalities have something to do with it. Very true, I have met alot of women who thought they were all that. Hey, thats great, but you aren't better than anyone else though. So, goes to say, if alone, can you be to picky???
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