BBB08 Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 How come the most attractive people are always single?...... Does anyone else notice this. When you go to a bar or club, all the good looking girls/guys are alone. I don't get that.
EC Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 My theory is that 'some' not all attractive people are usually just that...attractive. Their personalities are dry or they are stuck up so thats why they are alone.
kayz Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 yea i agree!! or there are jus slags an jus wana shg around
viciouscancer Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 im a very attractive person, people says. i am alone too. i am in great physical shape. i have a really nice body from hard years of training. i eat right and lift weights. i dress nice, i have money. i dont know what the problem is. i just am not appealing to ther people. i guess. people tell me im intimidating, and hard to confront. i havent had a g/f friend for 2 years. and no girls really approach me. people might think i think im better than other people. but that is the least likely thing i would think. i have been training and working out for years. to this day it is my only means of self gratification. so since i still have a problem attracting many females. i feel a little hurt. so i just drown my self in my job and training. that is the only way i can escape the pain of not being liked. but i deal with it one day at a time and it works. hope everything goes well for u bro., vicious
dyermaker Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 I don't think I can help you, except tell you that I'm extremely attractive and I'm not alone. I'm very humble too. Girls love that about me.
faux Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 Persons who fit an ideal do not appear attractive to me. I have noticed that a majority of people are not attracted to this over-saturated image of perfection, and tend not to pursue relationships with people of that type. Personality and mental faculties are sometimes quite lacking in these sorts of individuals, and I notice that they tend to attract moronic and vapid partners. There is, of course, always the possibility that these attractive persons do not wish to be involved in a committed relationship.
brashgal Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 Well if you all weren't so far away, we could all wallow in misery together in real life, not just in cyberspace. Maybe Loveshack needs to start a dating site as well...
adarkcloud Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 I find myself attractive, along with other people find me attractive, and Im not alone. I think the reason some attractive people are alone, is they arnt very open minded, they have really high standards, and are usually looking for a really hot partner. I happen to be with someone who is very attractive, but i also used to be with someone i didn't find attractive but grew on me. The people that are like that just needa step out of the box.
Mary3 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Hey dudesomewhere....I think you are very attractive and very nice chest !
dudesomewhere Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I might have to put up my gilligan AV so the ladies think me less attractive You are supposed to call me goofy, silly, whacky, crazy, nutty, loopy or any derivative thereof
honey2005 Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I think dude you are simply HOT ! I second that
UCFKevin Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I third it. Haaaaaaaaay... I'm alone, too. Although at least I have my cat to keep me company at night.
Anais Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 honey2005 I like your pic Are you single? LOL Another attractive but married one.
InmannRoshi Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Perhaps the extremely attractive have to be inherently more skeptical of the motives of others, just as the extremely wealthy.
Kat Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I consider myself to be attractive and I am not alone. Maybe not insulting all the people out there who have what you don't is a good idea? May even make you seem more attractive to those single people
amerikajin Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 Looks can get you the interview, but they don't necessarily get you the job.
Krang Posted August 5, 2004 Posted August 5, 2004 I think very attractive people alone are usually guys, and sadly i'm one of them. The point is very attractive guys aren't treated as well as very attractive girls. Because it's usually always guys that have to make the first move on girls. Women aren't really confrontational and will just sit down and wait for guys to come to them. They do get guys coming up to them. I'm not you're typical very attractive guy, i don't think i'm better. I'm a bit shy, and when i'm talking, i hold back on what to say, so i don't like talking bland-like because i have very poor social skills, through years of being withdrawn, and never had a girlfriend. The experience has seriously stunted my social skills. While, even though some of you think these people alone because they have all these flings, people would still be surprised that a very attractive guy, 20 never had a girlfriend. Usually, very attractive guys are popular at school. I was the opposite. With my family, i can be funny and eccentric but with everyone else, it's cold and reserved which i hate, because it ain't the real me.
viciouscancer Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 i agree with u KRANG. the best looking guys have to work alot harder than the best looking girls who just have to sit somewhere and look pritty. it sucks for us guys. im a very, very good looking 20 year old man, and i cant attract girl who i beleive is good looking girl if my life depended on it. it suck. but just live through it, life isnt going to last much longer for our kind. soon or someday u will go somewhere else, far, far away from this alien world, where some of us just dont belong. ill probably be there with u bro. hope u hang in there bro, viciouscancer
UCFKevin Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 I believe the bottom line is that women have it SO much f*cking easier in the dating world than guys.
Krang Posted August 6, 2004 Posted August 6, 2004 Very good-looking Guys just need to be more assertive and take action, as there are girls that will fancy you from sight, and chatting them up will hopefully take it further. I'm trying to do that. I don't think that i'll never get a girlfriend, because i see so much potential. Just need to get to that stage of asking them out. If you freely take action at the spirit of the moment, it could happen!
simplybrill Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 ok, I consider myself very good looking, and I get those guys that just stare...but dont say anything? Whats with that? I dunno, maybe a guy could answer that one for me. I agree that the attractive guys should be more assertive. From personal experience, Ive chatted up attractive guys and average guys for that matter, and then they get cocky and start acting like jerks after a while. So that may be one common reason why attractive girls dont walk up to the guys as much. Its not that we're sitting around waiting like lazy bums, its just that we dont want to have to deal with the cocky-factor. Good luck guys and gals
EC Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 I agree. I usually get looked at but not approached. The ones I do get approached by are real A holes..What's up with that? My guy friends say that when they first saw me I looked intimidating and high maintenance and like b*tch..But when they got to know me I was really a laid back goofy kinda chick. I've met hot guys that are cocky and stupid then I've met hot guys that are cool and humble. Looks can be deceiving which Is why I don't base my decisions on looks alone. and BTW UCFkevin how do you figure us girls have it easier in the dating world than guys? I could write a list (not going to though) of all the things us girls have to go through and deal with in the dating game that guys couldn't believe.
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