Cloaky Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 First off, I'm a straight guy. I'm not living up to my own standards -- Therefore, I feel like I'm not ready for a real-life relationship. I have issues I need to change about myself. I have found that I truly enjoy life only when I'm devoting it to another person. This has been very problematic for me, since both my ex girlfriends are the type to take advantage of guys. This idea crossed my mind, I would like your opinions. What if I found someone to PRETEND date. We'd fake being in love. Communicate via internet/text and likely never meet in real life. Does this sound completely crazy?
River Rain Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 It sounds like you're thinking of intentionally leading a girl on. I think that would be pretty mean. If you found a silly woman to actually say she'd like to fake date you, then good luck!
Author Cloaky Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 It sounds like you're thinking of intentionally leading a girl on. I think that would be pretty mean. If you found a silly woman to actually say she'd like to fake date you, then good luck! No, I don't want to hurt someone's feelings. I'm actually looking for a mutual agreement. I'm guessing my chances of finding a girl to agree on a fake relationship is slim to none?
Author Cloaky Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 Find a lesbian who is still in the closet. Hmm that actually makes sense. Maybe I'll find her.
Tiera D Posted November 11, 2012 Posted November 11, 2012 play those online games that has a marriage option,sounds good? TD 1
Author Cloaky Posted November 11, 2012 Author Posted November 11, 2012 play those online games that has a marriage option,sounds good? TD OMG that is brilliant. Why didn't I think of this? Thank you so much.
jimloveslips Posted November 12, 2012 Posted November 12, 2012 Hmm that actually makes sense. Maybe I'll find her. You'll get a response from a guy quicker. It's just mutual masturbation by email so the gender doesn't really matter, does it? Unless you're insecure about your sexuality, and this may turn you...
bolainmarsh2 Posted November 14, 2012 Posted November 14, 2012 I haven't been through it, but:(a) I haven't had sex for over 3 years, for no better resaon than that my wife doesn't "believe" in it, and I am getting a bit tired of being told that all concessions must come from me, but I am still here. (b) I have seen two others, and they weren't like that. One of my staff members died of cancer, and I watched him deteriorate. The other couple, much younger, were still living normal lives. They were out in a car one day when the wife was suddenly taken ill and they went to the nearest hospital where she died. I can think of several other cases. The lawyer's wife that I mentioned in Jen's thread "Couples getting Lonelier" had died of breast cancer. So did my boss's wife. But where has the OP said a word about what his wife is going through? He is thinking only of himself.
allenpo123 Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 I think you should learn to "be single" for a while. If you don't love the girl, it's not worth wasting your time and effort.
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