Emmy86 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Hey guys I'm new here I'll try not to make this long! I have just recently split from my partner, a month ago it happened. It wasnt mutual, he ended it with me. We was in a long distance relationship, we both have a child from a previous relationship so already a little messy! We was together a year and it was amazing, he was and still is the love of my life, you know when you find the one, that is him. I did have some issues with his ex, the mother of his child. He lied to me about a few things and kept things from me about their past. The whole thing that kept coming up was us wanting to live together. We knew what we wanted but it wasnt going to happen. I love where I live, my daughter is at school, I have all my friends and family here so I wouldnt like to move. He wants to move out of his town but where I live from him which is an hour and half drive he says is too far from his son. We talked about meeting half way but I just cant do it to my daughter, take her out of school away from her dad and family its easier for him as his son wouldnt be affected so much. It just wasnt going to happen so he decided we have no future and ended it. I was devastated and heartbroken. Since that happened we have tried no contact but I kept going back. We text each other, we've had a couple of lovely phone calls, we have been getting on great, we even said about meeting up and hanging out for the day. I thought I would ask about giving us another chance, he said no. He wants to be single and sort himself out, he just wants us to be friends though he says he still loves me. I dont know if I can be friends with him, its too hard. I still love him so much and will never get over him if we keep in contact yet I cant seem to get him out my life. I cant imagine not seeing him ever again and never speaking to him. I just really dont know whats best and its horrible our relationship ended because he predicts the future for us will be bad. Our relationship was amazing thats why this is so difficult
River Rain Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I know it hurts, but you have to do what's best for your daughter at this point. You may think he's "the one" now because the loss is so fresh, but you will surely find someone else who will love you, I hope you do. I thought my ex was "the one" but in hindsight our future would have been miserable.
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