dpc1192 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 So I've known this girl for about a year and a half and I love her. She is beautiful, sweet, and a good person. We dated for about 10 months, but things got a bit crazy so we needed time apart. I'm only 20 but I am always worried about her, for some reason I have a hard time trusting her completely because I got cheated on by a bad girl and now have a good one. I know I need to take time to think about myself and how to treat her but alot of times I do things I know will bother her and push her buttons then afterwards realize how dumb I was.. Once things get really serious I start to act differently also.. Any suggestions? I want this girl but I want things to be healthy. She's European so sometimes we hav problems communicating and also she likes to play games and is always changing her mind. I always kno what's coming and I probably kno her better than anyone she just is so unpredictable I always feel on edge.
Author dpc1192 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 I wanna text her this "I'm sorry I just know I need more time and we couldn't just rush back into things if we want them to ever work out, I need to work on myself. You were right though things needed to be slowed down ,yesterday freaked me out. Do whatever makes you happy. I want to make you happy, ill stick by you. For some reason you mean so much more to me than any other girl, and I'm willing to really do anything to stay close to you or to be better for you. I seriously don't expect anything from you I just want you to know I'm sorry and I don't expect you to love me at this moment because I screwed up and I know that. "
River Rain Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 If you do decide to text her, make sure you back up your words with actions or it'll fail again. You have to make a concerted effort to leave previous baggage behind when starting a new relationship. If you have trust issues, don't blame your new SO. Read self-help books, go to therapy or just decide you will have a more trusting outlook and stick to it; otherwise you'll carry this insecurity with you to every relationship you have.
Author dpc1192 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Anyone else have any suggestions? Think that would be a good text ?
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