simplybrill Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 For some insane reason, I want to see my ex, even though I hate him, and would never get back with him. I saw his friend last night outside, on the way back to my apt, and I was like hoping all night in the back of my head that he would show up too...its so wierd. Any ideas? Similar circumstances?
popvix Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 You want to see him (even being negative towards him) as a way of keeping your relationship going on some kind of emotional level, regardless of whether or not it is a positive experience. Its the same part of your mind/heart that was previously filled by that person for loving reasons, now you just want them back around to fill that space.... for whatever reason. Either way its a side effect of not wanting to let go of your attachment to them.... i know, im going through that right now No contact is the key.
Author simplybrill Posted August 4, 2004 Author Posted August 4, 2004 No contact...got it!! Will do Its so hard though, I just wanna bug him, like how he bugged me. I wanna disturb HIS peace haha "Loneliness only wants you back here with me Common sense knows that you're not good enough for me And all you had to do Was apologize, and mean it"- Justin Timberlake
Mr Spock Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 It's hard, but it will be worth it when you look back in time when you're healed.
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