truth_seeker Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I brought this up in another thread, and to some privately, and am doing so again because the situation is still going on. This girl I was into for awhile never panned out. I think she chose another guy off of OLD. I moved on, however her friend is pestering me. Her friend isn't really attractive and I've never given this girl any indication I had interest in her. I've spoken to this girl once - only to ask how the girl I liked was doing - and haven't spoken to her since. For a couple of months now she has been stalking me and now, most recently, trying to socialize with friends of mine. I'm thinking about confronting her and telling her in a *nice* way to stop and leave me alone. I might go even further and tell her I have no interest in her at all. Sounds harsh, but I need to get her to stop stalking me. Another thing is I am upset with the girl who rejected me. It's not the rejection part that has me miffed but the idea that she might have encouraged her friend to go for me when I do not like her friend at all. I'm insulted how I was sincere, got led on, ditched, and now have unwanted attention from her friend. Rant over. Suggestions welcomed.
stillafool Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I agree don't play along. If the girl who is stalking you continues just ignore her intentionally. Sooner or later she will get the message. As far as the girl you like telling her friend it is okay to pursue you - well you can't be too upset at that. If her friend asked her if it's okay that she dates you and the friend gives permission you can't be angry with either one. If you never had a relationship with the girl you like she has the right to tell her friend to go for it.
Author truth_seeker Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 I agree don't play along. If the girl who is stalking you continues just ignore her intentionally. Sooner or later she will get the message. As far as the girl you like telling her friend it is okay to pursue you - well you can't be too upset at that. If her friend asked her if it's okay that she dates you and the friend gives permission you can't be angry with either one. If you never had a relationship with the girl you like she has the right to tell her friend to go for it. I don't think the friend asked. I think the one I liked took it upon herself to encourage this friend that I was available and pushed her to do this. The one I liked, we exchanged emails and talked in person. Feelings were put out in the open. I don't tell one person I'm into them, then turn around and say, "You don't like me? Okay, I will like your friend then." What's weird is that I saw the one I liked when I was out on Madison Ave. I drive a nice car and we saw each other. I ignored her and took off. The friend has been coming around since then and thought maybe the one liked thinks I have money and suddenly has interest now.
Author truth_seeker Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Money is the ultimate magnet for human females. So you think there's a possibility the girl who rejected me might want me now because she thinks I got money? Got to love mindless gold diggers.
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