Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I'll keep this story short I posted a few weeks back about this situation I was having with this girl, she said a lot of things to me over the past 3 months that led me to believe that she was in fact genuine about what she was saying now we talked everyday for three months until recently last time I texted her was tuesday everything seemed fine she actually texted me first asking how I was feeling ( I had the flu) after that I texted her saying "hope you have a good day" no here it is Friday and I haven't heard from her...so my question is do I just man up and ask her what the deal is cuz we both liked each other or just wait it out and let her text me ? Thank you for the help.
mammasita Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Give her one more chance - Text her with a "how's your day going" or something along those lines. If she doesn't respond, then yeah - move on.
Author Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Don't text her bro, CALL! You will get her tone of voice and other factors, to help you see what's up. Also, if you not sure if a girl likes you, chances are she does not. Alright so I'll call her, now if she doesn't pick up do I leave a VM or just let it go? Just wondering
Author Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Yea, I hear ya man women these way to complicated lol
Author Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Sad sandy I agree with you, they also like to play games most of the time smh 1
Author Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Lol sandy I'm gonna have you call her up for me your funny man but at the same time you're right, I didn't text her for a day a few weeks ok and she texted me saying how she missed me and all This it just doesn't make sense
Author Rob2183 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 She is pretty cute, and I really thought she had her head on right good job and all that she's def worth the pursuit or else I wouldn't even have tried but the way I feel right now is I just want her to know my part and if she doesn't care then I move on no big deal what else can you do right? I have friends saying dont text her girls saying talk to her " girls like being chased" it's confusing for me because I call it like it is I don't hide anything.
jcrew11 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Have you ever spoken to her by phone? Call her and leave a message. Odds are she found a new guy to date that is in her town, and she's spending all her time with him. Or she lost her phone. DID you try e-mailing her or looking at her FB page?
Author Rob2183 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 Yes, we talked everyday pretty much whether it be text, phone or Skype and we aren't friends on FB cuz I'm rarely on I use twitter more and she follows me often retweets me idk tho I'm pretty confused by the situation trying to figure out what's the right thing to do
Author Rob2183 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 Sad in Texas you make valid points, however don't you think she would be texted me asking how I was?? Plus the text msg delivered so idk I guess I'll text her?
Under The Radar Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 I would text her. You will have your answer soon enough. I mean, honestly, what do you have to lose?
Author Rob2183 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 Yea, you're right I don't have anything to lose guess I just gotta swallow my pride and just do it.
Author Rob2183 Posted November 10, 2012 Author Posted November 10, 2012 @sadintexas I'll most likely text her tonight and see what happens, I do think that something is up tho we literally talked all day everyday. And to go days with out talking seems odd even if I was sick.
journey31 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 I'll keep this story short I posted a few weeks back about this situation I was having with this girl, she said a lot of things to me over the past 3 months that led me to believe that she was in fact genuine about what she was saying now we talked everyday for three months until recently last time I texted her was tuesday everything seemed fine she actually texted me first asking how I was feeling ( I had the flu) after that I texted her saying "hope you have a good day" no here it is Friday and I haven't heard from her...so my question is do I just man up and ask her what the deal is cuz we both liked each other or just wait it out and let her text me ? Thank you for the help. Call her if you like her. Ask her on a date. You'll get you answer.
Author Rob2183 Posted November 12, 2012 Author Posted November 12, 2012 Well i texted her last night asking why she wasn't talking to me and seaside cuz I wasn't talking to her and that she thought I was mad at her, we then talked on the phone for like an hour and half it was seriously first cuz I told her how I felt then we had an awesome talk about alot of things laughing and everything she said she was wondering what I was doing ad stuff so I guess we will see where it goes from here. 1
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