dannii Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 hello, my ex boyfriend broke up with me nearly a month ago, we haven't really stayed in contact, but i really miss him. so the other day i rung him and asked if he wants to come round for a cuppa and a chat, and he said yes. tht was sunday and now it is today that he is comming round. i still really love him, but he has been telling his mates that he doesnt want to get back with me, but this has happened before and we ended up back together but that was after just a couple of days not a month. i don't know how he is feeling, before he dumped me he gave me no indication of wanting to seperate, we had been together 2 years and he was organising holidays and bank accounts one day and the next he said it all got too much for him and he had to split up with me. i saw him at a nightclub and we went outside to talk and he started crying saying he had been so horrible about it all, and then he wanted to give me a lift home and came in to my flat and slept on the sofa and in the morning he was gone that was the last time i saw him a month ago. i dont know how i should act around him to show that i have changed and that i dont want as much commitment if we did get back together, i really want himback. what do i do?
overseas2004 Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 Why do you want to lie and act like you dont want a commitment? You would be lying to yourself? And for what ? to hold on to someone who does not know if he wants you. You said you had no indication that he wanted to break up with you. Yet you also said you had been through this before. Well the reason you have been through this before is that maybe he does like you alot but he doesn't really love you, otherwise he would not be able to stay away from you. That is hard cold reality and it is unfortunate. I hate when people say... help me salvage this. There is no way to do that. Sorry to say this but you should forget about him. Cancel this meeting you have. YOu are only opening old wounds and making them fresh. Hard to do I know but forget him as fast as you can.
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