Pobody's Nerfect Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Hey, everyone. I'm new here. Just joined. HAI. Anywho to the point: I was with my guy for 2 years. Everything was good. I mean regular ol' relationship. We had our days where we disagreed but it wasn't a bad relationship. We fell hard for each other. So, two weeks before the relationship ended thing started feeling weird. I wasn't hearing from him and I had found out he had hanging with his ex girlfriend. They were together on and off for 1/2 years and she had cheated on him and left him for another guy. It had been 3 years since it had happened and I was highly upset that he had even started talking to her! I could've swore he was over her. He told me he hung out with her and his feelings came back and wanted to give her another chance. Come to find out this girl is STILL living with the guy that she cheated on my NOW ex with, and is now trying to move in with MY NOW ex. I felt like he was a complete idiot for taking her back and knowing that she's still living with her ex. Anyways, MY ex texted me a week ago at 9am asking me how I had been and I was cordial with him. IDK why but I regret it and I feel like I should've been an ******* to him for leaving me. It's only been 4 weeks since we've broken up and he's already trying to move in with her and I feel like he texted me just to make sure I wasn't still mad at him. SMH. And one of my best friends who is also friends with my ex had lunch with him and the ex girl and they told my best friend to tell me "HI." I feel like she just took him back in spite because she knew he had moved on and she is just lonely. Do you think she will hurt him again? And do you think he will realize he made a big mistake?
Balzac Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Welcome to LS. Sorry you're in misery. He's now an ex. Why would you concern yourself with him? The bigger question is why would you contemplate a rerun with a guy who treated you this way?
Author Pobody's Nerfect Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 He is not the one for you. Move on. He sounds like he been wanting to be with her. Don't waste time with the "what if's" move on!! i agree... 1
Sugarkane Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Does he like being cheated on? Leave him to be cheated on if he is that foolish.
mishy Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 doesn't sound like it will last. Once they cheat they always will, i am sure she will cheat again. Better off without him
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