Rml Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 So i started dating this girl back in the beginning of September. Everything was going great i could tell she was really into me. Always wanted to hang out and always contacting me. Pretty much right at the end of September she starts acting distant. One night she sends me a text basically just saying she can't date right now because of everything she has going on with her life and once she gets her life together if by some miracle if i'm still single she hopes i would give her another shot, I just replied to the text saying ok. Next she she texts me saying i miss you and asking if i ever wanted to talk to her again. Long story short we talked it out but then later that week she starts this blowing me off crap again then just flat out ignoring me. Tried to contact her for the next week here and there with no response. So i gave up on it and tried to move on, but i was pretty hurt and confused. A month goes by, right when i am starting to get over her totally she just shows up at a local bar i always go to with my friends every week. I see her and just walk by acting like she doesn't exist. Few seconds later i hear her yelling my name from the other side of the bar. Ends up telling me some BS about how her ex contacted her( The ex that ended up hitting her and causing so much drama) She tells me she tried to be friends with him, but he started being the same way with her. Then she invites me back to her place which i told her maybe then tries to gives me a kiss on the lips when she leaves wth? So i tried to contact her two days later and she rejects my call and ignores my text. I just would like so advice here!!! Why would she basically drop me then right when i'm trying to get over her she tracks me down knowing i will be there saying she lost her phone blah,blah, blah. It just doesn't make any sense to me at all. Ignore someone then track them down to only ignore them again? Are people that mentally messed up in the head theses days? I mean really what is up with all this BS people pull these days. Anyway any input on this would be great. Sorry about the long post just figured i would include as much as i could so you could get most of the details on the situation.
SJC2008 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 You seem to like her a lot and needed to get over her. If you liked her that much just ignore her because she'll just keep pulling this crap and you'll be dragging out the getting over her process. She sounds like a "can't be alone person" and when the ex came back she dropped you then they were rocky so she came back to you, rinse repeat.
dasein Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 She's trying to keep you in the fold as a backup attention supply. Or is just really unbalanced. Either way is not good for you. Sorry you had to go through this, good luck moving forward. 1
Author Rml Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 You seem to like her a lot and needed to get over her. If you liked her that much just ignore her because she'll just keep pulling this crap and you'll be dragging out the getting over her process. She sounds like a "can't be alone person" and when the ex came back she dropped you then they were rocky so she came back to you, rinse repeat. Yeah i know. Just think it's pretty crazy to track someone down like that. I have dated plenty of women, but never had one do that before. If she ends up showing up there again i will need to tell her to back off and leave me alone. I hope she doesn't end up showing up there again, but if she did it once odds are she will do it again.
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