thr1986 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 I'm in a long distance relationship, we're both 26 and attractive young professionals. Gotten to the point were telling eachother we love eachother and talking about her moving here. Here's my issue, and yes I'm sure it's an issue so i need some positive input. She gets hit on all the time, there's plenty of guys after her an I'd be stupid to think there aren't. I just can't get it out of my head that she cheats on me. And I have literally been perfectly loyal to her since I met her actually. It just drives me crazy thinking I'm completely honest and dedicated to someone and I may be some other guys laughing stock because he's sleeping with my girlfriend who lives a 5 hour flight away. Do all of you attractive women in long distance relationships give into other guys telling you your beautiful, ect? I worry beause, yes Ive been te guy sleeping with someone before and then I find out she has a boyfriend somewhere else. How Do I get over this?
River Rain Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 When I was in my LDR, I never thought twice that my bf was cheating on me. We had such great conversations and shared so much that the trust was there, so it wasn't a second thought. Same with him. I told him often how much I loved him and thought he was very handsome. Even when we started to break up, I knew it had nothing to do with another woman. I'm currently getting to know a guy now who lives a 2 hour drive away, and he's hot, well, according to me! And again, I'm not going to assume he's chasing other women. I think you have trust issues and insecurity. She's never given you reason to not trust her, so why dig up the trouble? Just because she's good looking? You're going to end up ruining things if you get jealous over nothing don't you think?
FitChick Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I believe my ex never cheated on me and I never cheated on him. Thought never crossed my mind. By the way, if some random women wanted to have sex with you, would you do it? So why do you think that just because other men want to have sex with your girlfriend, she would have no say in the matter? Have her move to your city sooner rather than later.
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