babygirltt Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 so me and this boy have always had this 'thing; for about a year...and then we actually started going out for about a year....it was always quite on and off..and wed always break up over silly arguments but always get back together within a few days apart...towards the end of the summer everything was sooo amazing with us! we were so close and could talk about anything! he would come round all the time and wed be ourselves together and laugh with each other etc... i was worried to go back to school cause i knew somehow something would change..i was right! after one day back he broke up with me...i kept begging and begging for him! asking to see him all the time..he just ignored me!!!! he kept meeting up with this girl, and i didn't know about it...how has he moved on so quickly? he's now with her and its been about a month...it hurts me so much!!!! seeing them together! me and my ex talked last week and he said he missed me and its so different with this girl...but then he completely went against what he said and shut me out his life again! now we arnt talking but i miss him so much! i just need to know how he could move on so quickly..or if he misses me or if he still thinks of me!!! i love him and i know i always will! help me please! will he come back!?
pteromom Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 You are asking the wrong questions here. He's with someone else now, so it is unlikely he is sitting around missing you. The real question isn't how he could move on so quickly or whether he'll ever come back. It's how do you move on? Because you need to move on. Don't worry about what he's doing or what he's thinking. Work on healing yourself and moving forward. 2
Pobody's Nerfect Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 so me and this boy have always had this 'thing; for about a year...and then we actually started going out for about a year....it was always quite on and off..and wed always break up over silly arguments but always get back together within a few days apart...towards the end of the summer everything was sooo amazing with us! we were so close and could talk about anything! he would come round all the time and wed be ourselves together and laugh with each other etc... i was worried to go back to school cause i knew somehow something would change..i was right! after one day back he broke up with me...i kept begging and begging for him! asking to see him all the time..he just ignored me!!!! he kept meeting up with this girl, and i didn't know about it...how has he moved on so quickly? he's now with her and its been about a month...it hurts me so much!!!! seeing them together! me and my ex talked last week and he said he missed me and its so different with this girl...but then he completely went against what he said and shut me out his life again! now we arnt talking but i miss him so much! i just need to know how he could move on so quickly..or if he misses me or if he still thinks of me!!! i love him and i know i always will! help me please! will he come back!? First of all you should never ever beg! Though I know it's hard to do when you're in the moment and you get caught up in your feelings. The only advice is to start ignoring him and don't pay him ANY mind at all. Apparently, whenever something isn't going right with his new girl he contacts you. If you just let him be and don't pay any mind to him when he DOES contact you, I'm pretty sure he'd want you. No guy wants what he CAN have.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 He hasn't forgotten, he's just moved on. Just like you should.
witmadskilllz Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 move on, stick to NC, and spend more time on yourself. I know it'll suck from here on then but in the long run, you would be in a much better position. Enjoy what is still there, hang out with friends and family, hobbies etc.
Waz Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 There is no point in thinking how he moved on etc. You will never find any answer, spending hours of thinking about it. The best thing you can do right now, is to care of your self. You should try to move on, don't think so much of him. In my opinion, if you avoid thinking about it, keeping your self busy with other things, eventually you will nearly understand the whole situation from your subconscious part. Because after some time, you can judge the whole thing really clearly, but to achieve that you must move on and cut anything that connects you with this person, speaking about the emotional part. So, give your self the time to recover and you will see
oracle Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 There was a time for you and him... that time is now over. It wasn't a very strong relationship.. it was a tumultuous 1 year on and off thing. You are mired in cycle of wanting what you can no longer have.
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