lakerman34 Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 (edited) 3 things: 1. EVERY guy who gets dumped and is still in love with their gf (and especially if the gf finds another SO), watch 'Forgetting Sarah Marshall.' That movie helped me put A LOT of things into perspective. 2. The great 2Pac once said, “You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months overanalyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened, or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f--- on.” Heed his advice. 3. Ever hear of the Polar Bear Effect? If you try and stop thinking about polar bears, you WILL think about polar bears. Don't TRY and stop thinking about her. Just do things to get your MIND OFF HER, and when you do think about her, try and associate something 'bad' with her (for instance, my ex is 19 so her stupid erratic behavior during breakup like hooking up w/ guys, playing games, being a sorority ho, etc. I just tell myself 'HAHAHA she's 19 and stupid.' I've convinced myself.) Edited November 10, 2012 by lakerman34
QdB Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 No one can understand you more than me buddy...but it's time to just go away. Exit stage left. I finally walked off the stage myself after 2 years if trying. What I realized is that they know how much u care an love them deeply...but they're leaving u anyway. So it's time to top trying and go away. Sorry buddy
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