winter23 Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Ok. Do you thinkk that if you cease contact with your ex( but you stil say hi if you pass by them to be polite), do you think he will start to contact you (call, email etc>) more than if you dodnt cease contact? My friend says that he will want what he cant I have. I broke up with him, he was a bad boy and I fell for it, and I got tired of it, him not treating me right and all.........so I treated him really good ok? Like a fol I now know! But anyway, do you think that by severing most contact with my ex, he will try to contact me? And is it because of the "guys want what they cant have" thing or because he misses my affection.....I was so caring and sweet...tended to him when he was sick and everything, I know he loved that! So please give me your opinion!
LoveBear Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 I'm in the same position as you with the guy I've been seeing. When I don't call him or text him, he panicks. Just today, he didn't get my usual morning text and panicked. I got a text at 1:00 this afternoon asking me if I was ok. People will chase what they can't have. It's our mind as humans, we don't like rejection. Plus, they start to miss us. I say don't call, email, text, cut off all contact. If he contacts you make him sweat. Don't answer the calls call back the next day or a few days later, show him you're busy, and he doesn't have power over you anymore. When you don't contact him, and he contacts you, you'll see how good it feels to have that power over him, knowing he's sweating and you're sitting around laughing cause now you're giving him a taste of his medicine.
Author winter23 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 yeah I am giving him a taste of his own medicine! I remember how I used to be waiting for him to call or text me and when he did , he always "had to go" or didnt want to talk to me.....now he IM'd me yesterday and I kept it short and impersonal.....wanted to know about how I was doing. When we were together, he didnt care **** about how I was. Well.........thx for your response..........two can play this game, and he will get his just desserts from me!
Girlie Posted August 4, 2004 Posted August 4, 2004 I hate to say it....but I wouldn't even waste time playing games with these guys. Honestly, it's something you shouldn't have to do to get someone's attention. If you have to play like you're not interested to get his attention, there's something wrong. Perhaps he's one of those that just likes the thrill of the chase and gets bored when it's over...who knows. But don't waste your time on it if you want anything substantial.
Author winter23 Posted August 4, 2004 Author Posted August 4, 2004 I dont want anything really......I'm just thinking about the affects to my breaking up with him. I dont want him back, just want him to want me back. I dont have to play any games....its happenening naturally. I want him to grow up and by breaking up with him I know he will realize one day what a fool and ass he was too me.
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