Maximus1108 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 I asked her out a second time. She came over and acted cold. Afterwards she told me she didn't have the intention to kiss me or sleep with me. She said she had regrets about the first time. Somehow I managed to melt her and we ended up kissing and having sex. She says she's not looking for a relationship right now. She's been hurt many times. When I brought up another girl I met she really started acting jealous and bitchy. Also, I have heard somewhere that you have to go by her actions, not by her words. She tells me she doesn't want to have a relationship right now but she keeps coming back and having sex with me. This must mean she has feelings for me. Then again, if she says she doesn't want to have a relationship...she actually means she doesn't want to have a relationship with ME (some people say) Confusing. Any women out here that can confirm the actions not words theory?
kiss_andmakeup Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 she keeps coming back and having sex with me. This must mean she has feelings for me. Not really. While they are less common than their male counterparts, there are women out there who can completely, 100% separate sex from emotion. Many guys will sleep with women they have no feelings for just because they're physically attracted and/or want to get laid. There are women out there who will do the same thing. It sounds like she sees you as a FWB/booty call and that's it.
musemaj11 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 ONCE I had a girl told me that she always missed me only when she was horny. Yeah thats flattering ... 1
yessy21 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 ...and there are also women who can easily be "melted" but don't really want the sex, they just sort of go with it. This is really no great accomplishment or any indication of genuine interest on her part. I would listen to what she is saying to you. i agree. She might sleep with you, just to sleep with you. Its in our human nature to want to have sex. but that doesnt necessarily mean that she wants to have a relationship with you. In my perspective you should listen to her words. 1
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