footballguy7 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 (edited) Hi, I'm new to this forum and I would like some help. I've met this girl a couple of times while playing football with friends and she seemed really friendly. I don't really know her personally because we've never really hanged out officially. But her personality is somewhat very open. She posts her number on facebook to get contacts easily. So when she gave me her number (without me asking) I knew there would be no point in texting her, but I did anyway just to tell her my number as well. I don't know if she's showing signs or I'm just over thinking these things. The way she talks to me is probably how she talks to other guys cause she has a very open personality. She's very friendly and not shy at all. Before getting her number, we met at a party. She told me to take shots with her and told me to dance with her, but I told her I didn't know how and she told me the same. That lead to no where. And I still regret not dancing with her at least. That was the first time we actually had a conversation in public just the two of us. The next day she gave me her number and told me to text her when I go out. As mentioned earlier, I knew getting her number mean't nothing since she does it all the time to other guys and also her talking that way mean't nothing since her personality is like that. I didn't feel anything for her til' I started texting her. Her replies were very late though, 4-8 hours even sometimes. Maybe she's just not interested? We both mutually ended the conversation, me texting her last by saying good night. It's been 3 days and I haven't got a text, and I can't stop thinking about her for some reason. I don't usually fall for girls this easily and I'm wondering why I fell for her. She's been with a lot of guys (and I heard she slept with a lot too) and I think she told me I looked like her ex boyfriend. What do I do? Should I just text her? I'm kinda trying to play hard to get, cause I'm not even sure if she's interested in me at all. I don't wanna overthink this and want to know if I should forget about her and just move on. Sorry for the long post. Thank you! Edited November 8, 2012 by footballguy7
OompaLoompa Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 I think what you need to check first is whether you are okay with her treating other guys friendly like that and sleeping with a lot of them. If you think you are really okay with that, then I would say by all means text her and see what's up. If her response is somewhat lukewarm then probably not interested in you.
sanjana4u Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 Hi, I'm new to this forum and I would like some help. I've met this girl a couple of times while playing football with friends and she seemed really friendly. I don't really know her personally because we've never really hanged out officially. But her personality is somewhat very open. She posts her number on facebook to get contacts easily. So when she gave me her number (without me asking) I knew there would be no point in texting her, but I did anyway just to tell her my number as well. I don't know if she's showing signs or I'm just over thinking these things. The way she talks to me is probably how she talks to other guys cause she has a very open personality. She's very friendly and not shy at all. Before getting her number, we met at a party. She told me to take shots with her and told me to dance with her, but I told her I didn't know how and she told me the same. That lead to no where. And I still regret not dancing with her at least. That was the first time we actually had a conversation in public just the two of us. The next day she gave me her number and told me to text her when I go out. As mentioned earlier, I knew getting her number mean't nothing since she does it all the time to other guys and also her talking that way mean't nothing since her personality is like that. I didn't feel anything for her til' I started texting her. Her replies were very late though, 4-8 hours even sometimes. Maybe she's just not interested? We both mutually ended the conversation, me texting her last by saying good night. It's been 3 days and I haven't got a text, and I can't stop thinking about her for some reason. I don't usually fall for girls this easily and I'm wondering why I fell for her. She's been with a lot of guys (and I heard she slept with a lot too) and I think she told me I looked like her ex boyfriend. What do I do? Should I just text her? I'm kinda trying to play hard to get, cause I'm not even sure if she's interested in me at all. I don't wanna overthink this and want to know if I should forget about her and just move on. Sorry for the long post. Thank you! I think you are attracted towards her personality, so I think you must stop you as she is so opened and there is nothing unique she made it with you.
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