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Girls what would you do if some jerk spits in your face?

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This is what happened. Just for saying ''I'm not interested'' to a drunkard, he went up to me and spat in my face. I didn't even start anything. I'm so sad but yet I'll never see him again.

 

I never felt so humiliated and disgusted in my life. To me doing this to someone is the same as if I were being thrown manure. What ever happened to taking no as no and moving on?

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kneed him in the nuts.

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suladas Established Member

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The nuts is a good idea, or punch to the face.

 

Normally i'd say never hit a man there, but doing something like that deserves it.

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You should have got security. If you recognize the guy have him arrested.

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if you know how to throw a punch, punch him in the throat, hard. If not, call the cops or security.

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I would do what I have already done in such a situation. Attack him right back, go for the face, preferably the eyes, and make him regret his actions.

Some people act like drunkards deserve special treatment, merci, forgiveness, because they weren't themselves - I call BS! Nobody forced them to get drunk, making them responsible for their own drinking and the consequences thereof! Hit a drunk just like you would a sober opponent.

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This is what happened. Just for saying ''I'm not interested'' to a drunkard, he went up to me and spat in my face. I didn't even start anything. I'm so sad but yet I'll never see him again.

 

I never felt so humiliated and disgusted in my life. To me doing this to someone is the same as if I were being thrown manure. What ever happened to taking no as no and moving on?

 

 

getting in a fight with a drunk guy isn't a good idea should avoid at all costs if security is around have him thrown out is what i would do...so wiping the spit off first, walking away and having him removed ,if i couldn't get away and he got physical and i couldn't get to someone to help me i would defend myself. I would spray him with impulse or perfume in the eyes if he was drunk and then i could get away no bruised knuckles or cuts from his teeth on my knuckles either.....he was obviously close enough to spit so close enough to blind him for a while while i get away and he'll live......deb

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Knowing myself I would have probably punched him in the solar plexus

Emilia Established Member

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if you know how to throw a punch, punch him in the throat, hard. If not, call the cops or security.

 

Erm no, going to prison for grevious bodily harm or manslaughter is a stupid idea

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Pompom Established Member

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Why, if it's self-defense? Nobody can tell, with a subhuman DRUNK, what comes after the spit. Once a person penetrates your personal space and behaves aggressively, you get to feel and act scared.

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well in california spitting on someone is assault. If someone assaults me i will do my best to make it stop. Which doesn't include ignoring it and hoping the drunk will go away.

 

I have gotten into some pretty heated situations with stupid disrespectful drunk dudes. Nothing physical but thats only because the bouncers held the idiots back and prevented them from hitting me. A woman.

 

And i did nothing to deserve it. Other than answer their question honestly. Or tell them i wasn't interested.

 

Op, take some self defense classes. This will not be the last encounter of this kind i'm afraid. I had to learn how to defend myself because i am petite. My ex threw me across a room and i had to kick him off me with both legs using every bit of my strength because he was twice my weight and 15 inches taller than me.

 

I was so happy i did something. Rather than nothing.

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crude Established Member

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As a man who believes in equality, I wonder if your advice to a man would be the same if a woman spat in HIS face. :D

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Smash a glass bottle on the bar top and ask him to "take it outside" with me while waving the broken bottle end at him threateningly. :o

Pompom Established Member

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As a man who believes in equality, I wonder if your advice to a man would be the same if a woman spat in HIS face. :D

Scum is scum and has no rights. I don't discriminate that way.

Never forget, from a certain age up, people are either sane and have a choice, or insane and you get to choose for them; either way it's their problem. Either way, whether they choose or "can't help but" initiate physical hostility, they choose to be punished for it. It is very easy to not initiate BS in the first place. Nothing is easier than inaction.

 

Drinking is a choice. Hence your drunk actions are your choice as well. I am a very peaceful, apathetic person. I don't flinch at the noise of cars crashing, I don't walk up to people being offensive. Hell, I worked as a hooker, it takes a lot to make me go ugly in public. Most of the time I am so peaceful I could literally fall asleep any minute just from closing my eyes. Happens all the time. Including heavy metal concerts - first row. To get my physical attention, you have to be a real horrible person, and very un-ignorably so toward me or mine. I am a sweetheart. Just leave me alone :)

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This is what happened. Just for saying ''I'm not interested'' to a drunkard, he went up to me and spat in my face. I didn't even start anything. I'm so sad but yet I'll never see him again.

 

I never felt so humiliated and disgusted in my life. To me doing this to someone is the same as if I were being thrown manure. What ever happened to taking no as no and moving on?

 

I've never had that happen to me so I have no idea what I would do. I think what I would do though is to tell a police officer or my husband or male friend or family member and let him take care of it.

 

One day I was downtown and a drunk came and starting talking to me. I got uncomfortable and one of my friends from church saw me and came over and talked with the guy. This friend used to be a meth druggie (He's an ex-druggie now and is married to a lovely lady!) and he is intimidating. He's 6'4'' and over 200 lbs and when he came and confronted the drunk, asking him what he wanted, the drunk left. :bunny:

 

So, my advice is to always have with you a protector. Many people who spit on or insult or mock others are cowards and when a person they fear by sheer intimidation is at your side, they'll leave you alone!

 

Another example, when I walk by myself, sometimes I get catcalls. I hate that. However, when I walk with my wonderful hubby or with friends/family members who are guys, I normally don't hear anything directed at me, which is what I prefer. :)

 

This drunk guy who spit at you obviously has issues. If that kind of thing ever happens again, find out his name, info, and tell a police officer or male friend/family member. Nobody should get away with being so rude.

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well in california spitting on someone is assault. If someone assaults me i will do my best to make it stop. Which doesn't include ignoring it and hoping the drunk will go away.

 

Agreed. Ignoring it or not doing anything about it doesn't help anything at all.

 

 

I have gotten into some pretty heated situations with stupid disrespectful drunk dudes. Nothing physical but thats only because the bouncers held the idiots back and prevented them from hitting me. A woman.

 

Good. They are good bouncers. :)

 

And i did nothing to deserve it. Other than answer their question honestly. Or tell them i wasn't interested.

 

Op, take some self defense classes. This will not be the last encounter of this kind i'm afraid.

 

From what I have been learning, I actually think that's a really good idea. I want to learn how to shoot a gun too. The world is a dangerous place :( and it's important to know how to defend oneself and one's family/loved ones from harm.

 

I had to learn how to defend myself because i am petite. My ex threw me across a room and i had to kick him off me with both legs using every bit of my strength because he was twice my weight and 15 inches taller than me.

 

I was so happy i did something. Rather than nothing.

 

I am so glad you fought back and defended yourself!!! Way to go!!!

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I've never had that happen to me so I have no idea what I would do. I think what I would do though is to tell a police officer or my husband or male friend or family member and let him take care of it.

 

One day I was downtown and a drunk came and starting talking to me. I got uncomfortable and one of my friends from church saw me and came over and talked with the guy. This friend used to be a meth druggie (He's an ex-druggie now and is married to a lovely lady!) and he is intimidating. He's 6'4'' and over 200 lbs and when he came and confronted the drunk, asking him what he wanted, the drunk left. :bunny:

 

So, my advice is to always have with you a protector. Many people who spit on or insult or mock others are cowards and when a person they fear by sheer intimidation is at your side, they'll leave you alone!

 

Another example, when I walk by myself, sometimes I get catcalls. I hate that. However, when I walk with my wonderful hubby or with friends/family members who are guys, I normally don't hear anything directed at me, which is what I prefer. :)

 

This drunk guy who spit at you obviously has issues. If that kind of thing ever happens again, find out his name, info, and tell a police officer or male friend/family member. Nobody should get away with being so rude.

 

I agree with you, but it is disheartening that you need a 'protector'. It is my hope that society will one day advance to the point where everyone feels safe and no one gets intimidated by others.

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I agree with you, but it is disheartening that you need a 'protector'. It is my hope that society will one day advance to the point where everyone feels safe and no one gets intimidated by others.

 

Me too :love:

 

Sweetkiwi is right about taking self-defense classes because sadly the world is dangerous. :(

 

However, when at all possible, it's best to go to the law for justice. That's what the law is for: to protect people. When the policemen are good people, not corrupt, and have integrity, that's a big help!

 

With Sweetkiwi, it is so horrible that her ex attacked her. :( When he did that, it sounds like she didn't have any protectors (Police, friends/family, noble strangers) with her... she thankfully had the strength and ability to get away by herself. Not all women are so fortunate. :( Sadly, many people suffer from the people who are supposed to protect them actually hurting them.

 

I share your hope. :) It's a wonderful dream and like Martin Luther King Jr.'s amazing dream, it takes work and people caring about each other enough to make the change!!!

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Short answer: I would kick him right in his family jewels. :mad:

 

That's giving him too much credit Donna and saying he has "jewels" of any kind. :laugh:

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That's giving him too much credit Donna and saying he has "jewels" of any kind. :laugh:

Genetically decay-prone potatoes.

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I would probably be too shocked to do anything. I would be embarrassed too. I assume my friends would take care of the situation by alerting the staff.......if I was with a guy, I assume he'd beat the dudes butt.

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I would probably be in shock too. If I could gather my wits quickly, I would alert security and let them take care of it.

 

I would not confront him. Because if he is crazy enough to spit in someone's face, I have no idea what else he could be capable of, and the last thing I would want is to escalate the situation.

 

If it was a woman spitting on a man, I think the same thing applies. The guy could go inform security.

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I'd probably go ballistic and end up in a holding cell.

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I would probably be in shock too. If I could gather my wits quickly, I would alert security and let them take care of it.

 

I would not confront him. Because if he is crazy enough to spit in someone's face, I have no idea what else he could be capable of, and the last thing I would want is to escalate the situation.

 

If it was a woman spitting on a man, I think the same thing applies. The guy could go inform security.

 

 

I have been spat on you only have to look in their eyes to know that they have animal instincts operating....you never fight with an animal you dont know you are right you cannot know what they are capable of, i know self defense i only ever hit a man in self defense if i cant get away and if it were an animal i was facing i would be trying my very best to get away, thats why temporary blindness works....i have met a lot of animals in my past, and most of them could fight, if a guy is intoxicated and you go to kick him in the family jewels you better hope he hasnt got quick reflexes...and you hit hard and in the right spot....its a dangerous move for a woman.....most guys expect it....taking out the knee caps is better but before you do this i agree with you pteromom its best to alert security and let them do their job........fighting with men if you havent done it before ......you get hurt you have to expect that you are going to cop a hit if you hit them......its best to get the hell out of there unless you are ready for the bruises..self defense 101...deb

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Why would you assume that? Don't you think that's a little sexist?

 

Sexist? No, I don't think that is sexist.

 

I assume it because I know the personalities of the men I have hung around with.

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