pro Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 Looking at some of these threads, posts and posters has the light bulb on a little bit. Dating seems to be ridiculously difficult, not to say i need to date as i'm taken. But it has me thinking. Im an independant guy. Ya, all you women can laugh. But for myself i do not need a female around. Sure, i like the company but not if its too much. Also, i tend to not like women who get attached fast. I like to be ignored or somewhat challlenged. If a women says "I really like you" after the first date, she aint getting a second. Theres a time and place for that. IMO, you will not get feelings that fast for someone. Sure, youll be attracted, but really liking them, probably just in your own mind. So heres my question. Why do women view being alone or single as such a horrific thing? To me, people that always have to have someone are insecure or needy. Personally, i was never one to pin for anyone. Even with my ex whom i have a child with. i loved her deeply, but i never pinned for her. i enjoyed my space. Yet, when i was dating i always got the you failed to connect or you seem not interested. Why do women find independent guys unattractive, or some type of creeper?
sweetkiwi Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 well first of all i believe you mean why do some women find being alone horrific. And i believe that most women, myself included, gain a lot of positive feelings through our personal relationships. My man is a lot like you. I had to make initial contact then withdraw because i knew he wanted to come to me. Some women suffocate relationships before they've even started. I too will not give a guy a second date if he's insisting he wants to be with me, i'm amazing, and so on. It stinks of clinginess. 1
Leigh 87 Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 I don't need a relationship to be happy. A lot of women like myself, figure that their life should be fulfilling without a relationship. I only pursue relationships with people I really, really want to be with. People who are too desperate for a relationship end up settling for guys that are not enough for them, just for the sake of having a relationship.
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