Shotputter Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 So i met this girl ( were both seniors in highschool, 17 years of age). She is by far the most attractive girl i've ever been involved with. A definite 10 out of 10. The catch is this girl is extremely indecisive. On the couple of dates we've been on she seemed very attracted to me and even told me i was perfect, etc. She even gave me a complementary Blowjob!!! It was nice. There have been multiple instances when i brought up the idea of a relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend) between us and she said she wasn't ready for a committed relationship. There had already been 2 instances when she said we should stop talking because she didnt want to hurt me. In both instances she messages me the next day telling me she was sorry and wanted to continue things. A few days ago i saw on facebook that shes now in a relationship with someone else... She texted me and tried to explain but i wasn't having it. since then she has texted me and liked alot of my crap on twitter/facebook and even tried to say hi to me in the hallway today. I did not respond to her. This girl hurt me, but i really like her. What should i do? Do you think she will eventually just dump that guy and come back to me? If she does im not even sure if ill be willing to take her after the hurt she put me through.
ThaWholigan Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 She just wanted to have fun, she likes you a little but does not want anything too serious. Now she is in a relationship with another guy probably because he's not looking to be serious or anything like that. She will probably not be with him not too long from now. My advice is to loosen up a little. Let go of this one, don't look to "take her back" or anything. If you want an exclusive relationship, then look for a girl who wants it and don't put all your eggs into the basket just because it's the prettiest one . 1
Under The Radar Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 She just wanted to have fun, she likes you a little but does not want anything too serious. Now she is in a relationship with another guy probably because he's not looking to be serious or anything like that. She will probably not be with him not too long from now. My advice is to loosen up a little. Let go of this one, don't look to "take her back" or anything. If you want an exclusive relationship, then look for a girl who wants it and don't put all your eggs into the basket just because it's the prettiest one . Wholigan nailed it. Let this girl go and move on. She is not relationship material at this point. Her indecisiveness and new boyfriend tell you everything you need to know.
Author Shotputter Posted November 7, 2012 Author Posted November 7, 2012 Something in my mind keeps telling me to contact her. Both times that she stopped talking to me, she asked me why i didnt "try to win her back". I know its very stupid to think but my mind keeps telling me that this is some sort of test and she wants me to contact her to show her i care... This is stupid because shes the one who stopped us, not me. I was fully committed to making it work. my mind works against me sometimes.
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