When your date/ex left you for someone who you think is good looking.

[dustpull]

Doesn't it just completely annihilate your self confidence?

Doesn't it just break you, make you think that you're undesirable and ugly and unwanted?

 

I used to get alot of compliments from people, they tell me I look very cute and attractive.

But I never feel like that anymore, I just feel like there's always something missing.

How do I regain my confidence back? How do I stop comparing myself to his new date? I'm so sad right now..

[WhatYouWantToHear]

Nothing is more unattractive than someone so hung up on their attractiveness. Maybe that's why he choose chick number 2 over you.

 

Plus, what if she had been uglier than you? You'd be in the same situation--your self-confidence would be eroded because he chose a girl less attractive which meant he truly saw something inside her that he liked more than you.

 

Its the classic dumped chick Catch-22. The only solution is to just move on.

[CptObvious]

LOL OP

 

Where's your sportsmanship bro? You lost to a better guy so don't get all bitter and sad about it. You were supposed to lose.

[dustpull]

No u guys r right, i look back at this thread and was embarassed that i had posted this lol. I was just caught in a moment. And no ive always had confidence but in just not used to people picking someone else over me, definitely a grounding experience :/