milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Ok there is this guy named chris, and i met him in da fourth grade. He really liked me alot ( i think). SO i total dissed him. In da fifth grade he asked out my best friend alix and they lasted bout 1 month an a half. He totaly broke her heart. And she was cryin and bein all sad. So i made his life a livin hell. I didnt tlk 2 him or anything i said mean things 2 him. So then he started flirting and hittin on me. so we became even CLOER friends. so then the end of school came. and i got his IM name. so i was tlkin 2 him alot. Then his other ex girlfriend was fakin my friend. she meesed things up wit us badly. she sent me there conversation here it is: dhorsegrl: hi drEvil: hi drEvil: im back dlhoregrl: okay dlhorsegrl: umm dhorsegrl: do u like alesia? drEvil: y u ask dhorsegrl: im jusst woundering. dhorsegrl: you two would really make a great couple ;-) drEvil: w/e dhorsegrl: raelly drEvil: w/e drEvil: i dont like her enough to go out dhorsegrl: why? drEvil: wat do u mean y dhorsegrl: shes nice, funny, sshes praticly inlove with u, shee really really wants to go out w u drEvil: dont remind drEvil: me dhorsegrl: lol dhorsegrl: why dont you like her? drEvil: wht r u bothering me? dhorsegrl: im not. i am jut askingn.... drEvil: i said i dont like her drEvil: and u still r bothering me dhorsegrl: im justs asking why dont you likee hre? wut dont u like about here? dhorsegrl: here* dhorsegrl: hre** dhorsegrl: her************* drEvil: i just dont like her dhorsegrl: rrrrrrrrr drEvil: ook so i was so pissed at him i yell at him cursed him out and everything. so then she tells me she made that whole thing up. I WAS SOOOOOOOO PISSED AT HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so now he got online and never tlked 2 me so i said: FINE BE LIKE THAT I NEVER WANNA TLK 2 U AGAIN and we havent tlked yet should i call him
EC Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Wow this reminds me of when I was in like what... 5th grade.. Why did you scream at chris without asking him if he said those things first? You looked like a fool and then you scream at him to never speak to you again? The person you never need to speak to again is the girl that tricked you. After you tell her off you need to call chris and apologize for being such a dummy, explain what happened to him, and ask if he will forgive you.
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 i was mad cuz like 5 minutes afther dat e said he does like me and i told him dont pllay wit my heart like dat
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 i did ask him he didnt sAy nuttin
Little_Geisha Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 I'm sorry. I can't help you. Try writing in an actual language. And no one give me any lame excuse that she is young. She had to learn how to write DAT instead of THAT so she can learn how to write properly.
EC Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 I think he is confused and it is confusing you and it's also confusing me. I say if you already told him to forgive you and he didnt say anything then just let him go for now untill he's ready to be your friend again. Remember you came out of nowhere and started screaming at him for something your friend made up. You need to give him time to cool down and then try again.
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 Look he said SOME OF IT so i was pissed he said he liked me i told him dont play wit my heart cari said she made it up then i said sorry he said ok then when ever he got on da conputer he never tlked to me ' so i wonderd y wouldnt he tlk so he said he ddnt wanna tlk 2 me so thats when i said FINE I NEVER WANNA TLK 2 U AGAIN now he left and he didnt tell me
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 he went 2 alamabam a for a while and usally he'll tell me if he goes some where
EC Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 wow he must've been really pi**ed off! Just give him time. He probably really mad right now cuz you said don't talk to me again so he's not talking to you. After a couple days try talking to him again and if not send him an e-mail telling him how you feel. If he still doesn't want to talk to you then move on. A real friend will not stay mad at you for that long. But right now all you can do is wait for him to cool off.
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 I CANT WAIT I REALLY LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM TOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hes not mad chris is never mad at me unless he knows he did somthin wrong 2 me or i really pissed him (which is rarely) and if he was mad at me he would call me and yell:I WAS GONNA ASK YOU OUT!!!!!!!!!! but i never belive hi cuz he is just tryin to make me not mad at him anymone
Pained Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Thank you, Little_Geisha, for writing what I was thinking. It's bad enough that kids 21 and under are this completely illiterate and incapable of articulating themselves, but the sad thing is that I see some people in their 30's and 40's doing the same thing. No wonder our education system is criticized. Anyway, how old are you? I think you need to cool it and leave this Chris guy alone. You swore at him, told him not to talk to you, and now you're wondering if you should call him?? No, you shouldn't. You should think about how to better handle yourself in the future.
EC Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Pained I have to disagree with you it's not that some are iliterate and incapable of articulating themselves, some choose to write this way for the simple fact that's it's easier and faster to type. I write like that as well sometimes when I'm in a hurry and that doesn't make me anyless intelligent.
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 ok tis YOUR opinon dat usng word like that r studp O WELL GET OVER IT i like typin like dis and if u gotta a problem wit dat O WELL
Pocky Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Shorthand is intended for personal use and not as a way to communicate. Have you ever seen a memo written in shorthand? No...
Pained Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Choosing to do so on a site where you're asking for advice not only makes you look illiterate, but makes it very hard for other people to read and therefore give thoughtful responses. If you want to use that with your friends, that's fine, but don't do it to people on a public site. Talk about a headache. Oh, and as to judging someone's intelligence...we should judge people based on their actions, not on their words. You can go around screaming, "i m intelligunt!!" all you want, but you end up looking like a fool. Now, as I have no other advice than what I gave in my previous comment, I'm going to move on. She needs to leave the kid alone.
Pocky Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 ok tis YOUR opinon dat usng word like that r studp O WELL GET OVER IT i like typin like dis and if u gotta a problem wit dat O WELL You just keep on typing any way you want to and I'll just keep on thinking you're ignorant. That way we're both happy.
Author milkchocolate57 Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 k bac 2 chris. Now wat should i tell him. o im so sorry, he'll still never tlk 2 me o well byebye
bitterlyjaded Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 (edited) listen, you're how old? 10? 11? I don't want to sound like I'm discrediting and devaluing what you're feeling right now, but I can promise you that you're putting yourself through far more stress then this guy is worth. Your both kids, and imho, far too young to be dating. Don't sweat this guy. You've got you're whole life in front of you. Go be a kid, play with your friends, and enjoy not having to deal with the stress that some relationships can bring. Edited October 16, 2023 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Privacy
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