Necromancer Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 I have heard from women that they don´t want men that hit on allot of women..... "ohh he could tell the same thing to the next girl". Either i hit on allot of women or none. I think women don´t realize how often men get rejected to get a freaking date irl you have to ask out at least 10 women and the 9 will flake. So if at least (i) want something to happen i have to hit on 20 women to get 1-2 dates. No, i am not player i am just a guy normal guy.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 try option 3, learn how to read what women are interested in you. 2
dasein Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Well, they don't claim to like a lot of things, but it's what they respond to that counts. Never be shamed by anyone into sublimating your natural, healthy sexual desire as a man. That doesn't mean walk down the bar hitting on every woman in turn, but if one finds out you asked her GF out before her and thinks that's "bad?" So what? Her problem, not yours. You did the right thing in approaching and trying. Let them set their parameters, you keep yours in the forefront. Good luck.
AD1980 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 try option 3, learn how to read what women are interested in you. Some of us desperately look and dont get signals we have to go in blind. For us unattractive or average dudes its a numbers game we cant put all our eggs in one basket just because a women wants to feel special because chances a random girl is gonna be interested in us is slim to none
xdahliax Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 You can hit on as many women as you want, just hide it from the women you're hitting on. It's not rocket science. Women want to feel special, like you spotted them out of everyone else. 1
Leigh 87 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Your thinking too much. I could not care less how many girls my partner went for before me, or any partner I am with for that matter. As long as the are not a well known player who treats women like crap and has a history of cheating, I will not care if they hit on a lot of women. It is stupid to think "oh, well, he loves and adores me NOW, but at first I must not have been that special to him, seeing as he flirted and hit on lots of other women"
Onionator Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Why hit on someone for the sake of hitting on them? I doubt you're actually interested in all of the 20 women you hit on.
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