Kanejd Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 Hi everyone. I find myself in a situation that perplexes me completely. I was with my girlfriend for a year. We broke up because I screwed up with my finances and some other stupid stuff (not cheating). Pushed her for two months and she pulled away. Left her alone and then she came back. Moved 4 hours to be with her. Acted needy and had no life. Went on vacation adn it didn't work. She said we need to be apart for a while and I have to feel like I'm loosing you to really know you are the 1 and we need to date other people because I'm 26 and you're 33 and I don't know if I can commit right now. Took that as b.s. Three weeks later we were suppossed to go to a concert and I felt uncomfortable going with her because I wasn't ready for anything like that. I dropped the tickets off and wrote my peace in an indifferent way and left. Today, the sister called me and said that my ex said..."He wouldn't end it like that...I have to call him...I only wanted to have some fun." I was needy and had no life and was at her bekon call for 6 months and she got used to having me when she wanted me. It seems like I got the power back and she's getting nervous because no guy has ever done anything like this to the beautiful princess. I do want her back but what should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
InLove13 Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I guess I look at your situation in 2 different ways. 1.) It shouldn't be this hard. 2.) Why play all the games if you love each other - it ends up in a mess. The relationship should be about give and take, not give until you feel upset and resent the person. If there is unconditional love, you both should be willing to make each other as happy as you can - with some alterations along the way. I know you love her and want her back, but I think she should make more of an effort on her end also if she wants it to work. She needs to appreciate what you guys have and what you have done for her - princess or not. I know I make sure my boyfriend feels appreciated, and he does the same for me. Maybe she is taking the idea of 'thrill of the chase' too far. You two should sit down and talk about what you both want out of the relationship, as well as what you both want in the future. Hope this helped! Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 a 33 year old guy should at most date at 30 year old woman. leave the 26 year old woman for us 20s dudes. Link to post Share on other sites
Ptking403 Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 let her come to u dont let her think that she has u on a string, give her what she wants then take it away from her and see if she comes back Link to post Share on other sites
Mr mesed up Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 I see the names not an accident then! Link to post Share on other sites
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