Sarah89 Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 I'm not sure if this is the right place to write this thread but oh well, I posted this in dating too but didn't get much response. My ex broke up with me a month and a bit ago, I personally feel so much better without him, I've heard he's moved on too and he's seeing some girl. Bit too soon you might be thinking, I thought the same. But I've moved on with my life so it's fine. But the part I need advice on the most is this... I met a guy about 2 weeks ago and we just clicked. We've been to 2 gatherings together at friends houses and we also met up last week with a few friends. He speaks to me via IM a lot and always speaks to me at these gatherings. It might sound a bit soon too but I really like this guy and the whole thing has brought a positive feel to my life's at the moment. At one of he gatherings he insisted we shared the sofa bed to sleep on, so I said yes. But what I liked was he didn't try anything with me, not like some guys. My friend thinks this guy likes me in that way, but these past few days I'm not really sure, he hasn't been talking to me on IM that much, although he did message me saying we should have another friend gathering sometime. My friend asked him if he liked anyone at the moment a couple weeks ago and he said he did, but I know that's not me :S
BreakOnThrough Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 uhhh, why not just ask him if he likes you? Simple solution, and it will stop your obsessing. If he likes you in that way, he will come out and say it, guaranteed
coffeebean201 Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Maybe he isn't wanting to be serious boyfriend/girlfriend. Or maybe he just takes longer to decide if he really likes someone. Either way - give him space. He wouldn't have spent all that time with you...... if he didn't like you quite a bit.
Author Sarah89 Posted November 6, 2012 Author Posted November 6, 2012 uhhh, why not just ask him if he likes you? Simple solution, and it will stop your obsessing. If he likes you in that way, he will come out and say it, guaranteed I'm not obsessing I'm just pondering the situation haha. I guess so, thanks!
Author Sarah89 Posted November 6, 2012 Author Posted November 6, 2012 Maybe he isn't wanting to be serious boyfriend/girlfriend. Or maybe he just takes longer to decide if he really likes someone. Either way - give him space. He wouldn't have spent all that time with you...... if he didn't like you quite a bit. I guess so, but yes space is a good idea. And exactly, my friends think the same. Thank you!
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