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ex has inconsistent emotions but wants me back?


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So after two weeks of nc, and her seeing a facebook picture of me tagged in it, with a beautiful girl, she freaked. Deactivated her facebook because she was jealous and she said it made her "sick to her stomach." Note she broke up with me.

 

she called me back, asked me to facetime, and skype with her, and so i did. Asked me to spend the weekend with her and I did, everything was perfect.

 

Now I asked her what she wanted, and she told me she wants to take it slow because she wants to figure out why she has these inconsistent feelings about me. She has inconsistent feelings with me, and thats what she is worried about when getting back together, but she is willing to work it out.

 

For my end of this, should I do little contact again?

Do I do very little for her to let her realize she misses me?

I don't want to make it seem easy that she has me back all over again, and doesnt have to work for it.

 

What can I do to get her to realize MORE than jealousy?

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You could send her an e-mail saying that when she has figured out what she wants to get in contact with you, as this way you are leaving the door open without seeming too pushy. If you do not hear anything from her within a couple of months, you could send her an e-mail a few days before Christmas wishing her a "Merry Christmas", and she how she replies.

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I think ill just let her do all the work from here on and out. Anyone else agree?

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