Dkp Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 My morning has been terrible.. I'm constantly checking my phone. Thinking maybe just maybe he misses me like I miss him and he will reach out but no nothing. It hurts so bad I want to call him and pour my heart out "again" I want him so bad even after all the bull****. I find it a lil helpful posting and reading everybody's situations on here but the pain this emptiness I feel in my chest like it literally physically hurts. It's unbearable. I just want him to want me like I want him. It's hard to accept and swallow. I reminisce all the good times listen to sad songs replay all the hurtful things he said constantly in my head. I'm hurting bad. I try to keep busy but everything reminds me of him. Ouch! : (
Author Push_Through_It Posted November 8, 2012 Author Posted November 8, 2012 LS has been such a huge help for my morning. I try and jump on for 5-10 minutes each day just to read what other people are going through and help me understand that my problems aren't the only thing out there in the world. Yes my situation sucks, but I feel that if I can spend some of my time putting myself into another user's shoes and offering some advice not only will it benefit them but in return it also takes away from my own problem and helps me cope. And btw I've been at that stage where you hear their name and you basically shrug your shoulders and say "so what" so it IS real....I'm just trying to get back there again...
suladas Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 How was everyone's morning today? Mine was great, shes still on my mind but i'm back to where I was before last weekends setback, maybe even better. I find I really don't care much anymore. Seen her today, and it doesn't phase me. All the unanswered questions, and wondering matters less and less to me each day. Joined the gym again, and it working out sure seems to clear my mind and make me feel so much better. Hope everyone elses day is good
Author Push_Through_It Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 my morning wasn't too bad. I just started a new job and went to a happy hour last night with my new co-workers....woke up a little later than normal so I was too focused on getting ready to even give her a second thought. Blessing in disguise! Glad to hear your morning was a good one suladas, one step at a time buddy.
puzzled1 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Mine seems to get worse by the day Once I am awake, I can focus on other stuff and then I feel good. But I am usually tossing and turning the last couple of hours until I cant take it anymore. Only looking for the day when it all stops. Fridays are really hard for me because it was "our" day and I only hung out with her all day so I still think that we are going to hang out but I have been ignoring her and will not give in!
LostOne1 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Mine seems to get worse by the day Once I am awake, I can focus on other stuff and then I feel good. But I am usually tossing and turning the last couple of hours until I cant take it anymore. Only looking for the day when it all stops. Fridays are really hard for me because it was "our" day and I only hung out with her all day so I still think that we are going to hang out but I have been ignoring her and will not give in! yeah fridays and saturdays are hard for me, which is why I try to hang with friends. Those were my out days and well no ex anymore, so I try to find a way to hang with friends and get it out of my mind. I wonder how my ex does it.. she stays at home I think... must be tough.
puzzled1 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Yeah I have been hanging out with friends everyday!! Its getting a bit tiring but I need to get out of my house. My ex was the "stay at home" type girl too, but I honestly doubt she is staying at home. She probably has guys wanting to go out with her and that sounds much better than staying at home. I try not to even think about that.
LostOne1 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Yeah I have been hanging out with friends everyday!! Its getting a bit tiring but I need to get out of my house. My ex was the "stay at home" type girl too, but I honestly doubt she is staying at home. She probably has guys wanting to go out with her and that sounds much better than staying at home. I try not to even think about that. I just think about myself when I'm out. I could care less if shes out or not. The main thing for me going out is being sure I am enjoying it and enjoying the little things life has to offer.
Author Push_Through_It Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 I cant seem to get her out of my dreams but as soon as I wake up I have a list of things that I read to remind me what I want and also that she is not able to give me those things. Also - Friends are crucial right now because nobody likes being alone with their thoughts after a breakup but dont underestimate the value of time to yourself. This is also a great time to discover new things that you like, reflect on your values and help build a better version of yourself that is prepared for when that someone new does eventually come along. Personally I rediscovered my love for woodworking and have spent hours down in my basement working on projects, listening to music, and just enjoying time to myself.
Timothy Posted November 16, 2012 Posted November 16, 2012 Just make yourself so tired by working hard all the day that you will have no time to dream for anything.
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