zabbor Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 I met a girl three weeks ago, had excellent two dates before I went off on vacation and kept texting 2-3x per day. She was mostly the one initiating contact and was very interested. That was until one night when things got out of hand, I was tired and unfortunately said things that hurt her and I regret. She tells me that whilst I did say nice things, I hurt her in what I said. My error was to try to push her and it really backfired pretty bad. She still sends me messages but does not want to see me yet as she says she needs time to get over this and that we will talk about all of this at another time. This is coming from a girl who before couldn't wait to see me again. She says that this week she just has too many emotions and needs things to cool down and to get over criticism. She has come out of a hard relationship 10 months ago and does seem quite confused as to whether she wants to do anything with anyone. If I give her time, is there a chance she could realistically want to see me again, or is this a case of just moving on ? If I should give her time, how much time is too little/too much ? Thanks.
clemson843 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 A lesson I learned recently was don't pursue too hard. Just be there for her, ask her how she is doing. Don't bring up dating, just go back to what got her interested.
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