LuckyDuck Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Two nights ago I got two late night phone calls from my ex, one that I ignored and the other I answered. I talked to her for a few minutes to see if she was ok, she just wanted to talk, bitch about her day, etc. It was a conversation that I cut short with a "I Love You, but I'm going back to bed." While at work yesterday I get another call from her, since I was not busy I answered, and she wanted to know if I wanted her TV to keep in my condo. I cut that one short as well to make sure that it didnt go any further. Within the next 6 hours, I recieved 4 more calls from her, none of which I answered. Just one voicemail that said "Hey it's me, call me back when you get this." How about no! Since I blatantly told her that I would not call her. What in the heck is she thinking? She dumps me a month ago because "She needs to find herself/time alone," she gets lucky that I answer two days in a row and now she thinks she has a "bf on a string." I think not. Grrrr.... I wish I knew what she was thinking.
ringo Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 She wants what she can't have.... like most people. You've made it clear that you are done and want nothing to do with her anymore. She can't stand it. It's driving her crazy. Therefor she's making up every little excuse to call you and hear your voice... or get you to say something to give her hope that you will take her back. My I suggest.... if you don't want anything to do with her... you've told her this... and you really don't want her calling.... then maybe think about changing your phone number. It's an option... if she doesn't stop and it gets to the point of harassment that is. But you definitely don't need her calling you and work and getting you into trouble.
Author LuckyDuck Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 Throughout the breakup I have called her mom on a few ocassions to see what was going on with my ex, because she refused to open up to me. So I talked to her mom every now and then, sometimes she would call me to see if I was doing ok. Well today her mom called and she said "I hear you took my advice." Meaning, she once told me not to answer her calls or call her anymore. Apparently my ex was calling me all of those times yesterday to ask me out to dinner and since she couldnt get a hold of me it was driving her crazy, so she called her mom to vent. Funny how one moment I feel like I'm going through hell and the next the tables have turned. I've been thinking, if/when she does ask for me back, I don't know what I'll say. I have hard time dealing with the fact that someone that said "I Love You" on a daily basis abandoned me on a whim, all because she refuses to grow up. How do you go about dealing with a person that wants you back?
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