mass millz Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 He wasn't happy but is now assuming I won't talk to the other guy again. I will though. In 6 weeks time. Yay! WOW!! I thought the same thing.... You will pay for your mistakes one day!
Nyla Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 I have a crush on someone, but I love my marriage and my husband far too much to let some silly little crush ruin what we have. I find the idea of cheating abhorrent; I am mature enough to know that love at first sight is an illusion and a romantic myth. You are in lust with this man and since he is not financially stable, you would like to enjoy a fling with him. Go ahead, but remember who will be devastated when your actions come to light. Nobody can hide forever. The honorable thing to do would be to divorce your husband or realize that you promised to be faithful to your children's father.
karnak Posted November 8, 2012 Posted November 8, 2012 And I most certainly won't leave my husband for him. Ok maybe in my little girl phantasies;) in reality he earns next to nothing (working hard but in a different country with low salaries and a really bad economy) so that's not really an option. So, let me get this straight: You have feelings for another man. Yet you won't even consider divorcing your husband, because the guy you have feelings for doesn't earn much?? That means you're married because your husband is what? A good provider? Ugghhhh... Disgusting Sick world we live in
Nyla Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Unfortunately that mindset is very common among women. I knew a teen mom who left her devoted first child's father for a rich man. It didn't matter to this greedy woman that her first child's father, had been responsible and mature in ways that most teen fathers were not. The new guy had more money, so she quickly became pregnant so that he would marry her. She has so many problems with her in-laws. What goes around comes around.
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