FrustratedGuy91 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Long story short, I met a girl through a friend in common some weeks ago, we kissed a couple of times and I thought she was interested in me. I've been trying to play it cool, don't look overly interested and after a while I asked her out, she told me she couldn't that time and gave me good reasons but that we could some other weekend. At this point I decided I'd give it a rest. A week or so after that I talked to her again on a Saturday asking if she had plans she said she didn't so far, but this time I didn't ask her out, bc as I said I had decided to give it a rest. As it happens I bumped into her and our common friend in a popular night club, I was with a friend, but she acted different, distant, and kind of weird. She ended up going her own way even leaving her friend with us. As our common friend tells me she has been seeing another guy. Now I don't see nothing wrong with putting your eggs in different baskets but I really have no idea of what to do. Should I talk to her? I was thinking something like asking if she was okay because she seemed idk weird last time I saw her, and then see where it goes from there. Or maybe I should just give it up? I can really use some advice right now. Thanks
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted November 6, 2012 Author Posted November 6, 2012 So the "Hey you were weird the other night, are you okay?" thing to see what she says isn't a good idea?
mortensorchid Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Honestly, she doesn't sound like she's interested in you. It's ok to chat with her should you see her again, but don't hold your breath. Also, if you are interested in seeing her again, don't wait until the last minute to make a plan. Once I had some guy who would text me at 7 pm on Saturday nights asking what I was doing. I was always on my way out to do something, by then it was too late for him. Arrange a time/meeting well in advance so that you know the person will be available or not.
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