Hurting145 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Ive been having a relationship with a guy for past year now... things have been hard for us (like any oher couple really) hardest thing is the distance... he lives in Canada and me in England... We've both been through alot together...him being ill and me coming out of lukemia, we've both been a support for each other.... each time hes planned on comming to meet me something happens....and we dont get too meet... are we not to be? He should be able to come and see me quite easily considering he works with airlines...but we havent met yet? does this mean anything? He also seems to have an issue with my age, i am 5 years younger than him, not yet at uni...but age shouldn't make a difference right? His friends tease him and he sometimes takes the anger out on me... we use to talk everyday and now we speak once a week...or once every week and a half... he says his busy with work...or s he getting bored of us? will he ever come to meet me?
CherryT Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Sorry to say, but it sounds like he's slowly removing himself from your relationship. You've been in a "relationship" with him but you haven't met and it's been over a year. I know England and Canada is far away and I may not understand as much because my boyfriend and I are only 3 hours away, but to talk once every week and a half... that's not a relationship. No matter how busy my boyfriend and I get, we see talk every day. 2
River Rain Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Yeah, I agree with Cherry, it sounds like he's cooling off. I wouldn't put any stock into him coming to visit you any time soon. I think if you want more attention from a guy, you need to ask for it. If he can't give you want you need, you have to move on and find someone who will. It's hard to do, but life is way too short to settle.
umirano Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Ask him precisely those questions. Don't be afraid. You want clarity. If he evades in to phrases: Walk away from that relationship. Especially the answer on why you talk so little should be extremely informative at this point. The age gap wouldn't worry me that much, it depends on your absolute age though. If you are still in your teens it matters more, because you're still not fully grown and formed as a person (if one ever is?). Are his friends teasing him about the age gap or something else? regards
Recommended Posts