Sarah89 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I'm not sure if this is the right place to write this thread but oh well, so let me tell you my story. My ex broke up with me a month and a bit ago, I personally feel so much better without him, I've heard he's moved on too and he's seeing some girl. Bit too soon you might be thinking, I thought the same. But I've moved on with my life so it's fine. But the part I need advice on the most is this... I met a guy about 2 weeks ago and we just clicked. We've been to 2 gatherings together at friends houses and we also met up last week with a few friends. He speaks to me via IM a lot and always speaks to me at these gatherings. It might sound a bit soon too but I really like this guy and the whole thing has brought a positive feel to my life's at the moment. At one of he gatherings he insisted we shared the sofa bed to sleep on, so I said yes. But what I liked was he didn't try anything with me, not like some guys. My friend thinks this guy likes me in that way, but these past few days I'm not really sure, he hasn't been talking to me on IM that much, although he did message me saying we should have another friend gathering sometime. My friend asked him if he liked anyone at the moment a couple weeks ago and he said he did, but I know that's not me :S
River Rain Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Sounds like he asked you on a date again, so why not just go? Don't base your entire decision on hearsay either, base it on how the two of you get along when you're together in person.
Author Sarah89 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Sounds like he asked you on a date again, so why not just go? Don't base your entire decision on hearsay either, base it on how the two of you get along when you're together in person. I suppose that would be the best idea we get on great together.
River Rain Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I suppose that would be the best idea we get on great together. There's just too much overanalyzing when it comes to dating, kind of drives me nuts, lol...and I'm guilty of it too, but I always remind myself that the only way you can find out if a person really likes you is through your own experience with them, in person, not through words written on a phone or email. I learned this the hard way recently and I won't make that mistake again!!
Author Sarah89 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 There's just too much overanalyzing when it comes to dating, kind of drives me nuts, lol...and I'm guilty of it too, but I always remind myself that the only way you can find out if a person really likes you is through your own experience with them, in person, not through words written on a phone or email. I learned this the hard way recently and I won't make that mistake again!! Thank you. And yes that makes much more sense, it's always better in person!
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