pooloflife Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 H i everyone posted before on earlier threads,update.My ex contacted me this morning to sort some things out.in the conversation she blamed me for starting an affair with a married man,said because i smoked dope at night she got bored[she has smoked as well throughout the relationship] said this new man whose 16 years older than her[52-66]says he treats her like she wants to be treated,out for meals every night and always complimenting her saying how beatifull she is and generally spoils her,After 8 months of me not working, i can see this caused a strain on both of us but had no idea she was developing feelings for another man feel so betrayed.
PYTpisces Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I may need to re-read your story. How long were you all nc? I guess I never see the point in "sorting" things out if the relationship is over, if it's not to make an honest effort to reconcile. If its not to reconcile, I feel like talking beyond that causes pain unecessarily. Do you see reconciliation for the two of you?
Author pooloflife Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 No chance of recocilation, if she no longer loves me and wants to be with this man thats her choice not mine or the children,so no no chance of getting back together,i will try to be friendly considering the children invovled from both families bot other than that shes made her bed i am going to let her ly in it.Still struggling to understand how she can do this to her family, only hope karma comes round for both of them. 1
PYTpisces Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Oh yes. I've never seen karma not have her day. I believe we all reap what we sow. It sounds like she has poor character and little to no morals as well. That's sad.... For her :/
Author pooloflife Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 I have to say she did have morals, in fact this is why its so out of her character to act like this,i dont understand or know her anymore, i knew we were going throughh a bad time but this betrayal has hut me hard,she has always been faithfull as i hvae aswell,we may of had problems but ther was never anyone else invovled,dont know how its all going to play out,i will post on here often as i find it helps, getting the words out.
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