dreamstate83 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 You see, my ex's most trusted friend also became a really really good friend of mine while I was in Australia. Well today I got a message from this mutual friend. She wrote: "Well I have some news for you that you probably don't want to hear. That guy she's with now? I don't like him. They are so clingy with each other that it's annoying everyone around them and she just met him like 2 weeks ago. There is no way he is invited into my house when we hang out." This is the same friend that refused to divulge any information or be the "go between" when I was going through my heavy love withdrawal. So the, you ask, why do I feel so **** good right now? Apparently my relationship was a lot better than I thought because she's trying to mimic it with the first guy she met since the breakup. Feels good to be the model for success! I love the ego boost that I get every time someone leaves me and then tries to mimic what we shared and fails! Having said that, I was there once too and I know that when the honeymoon period ends she's going to be a hell of a wreck. Almost feel bad for her in that aspect, but I guess everyone learns the hard way to cherish what they have eventually. Please excuse me while I go do a cartwheel to the kitchen and grab some **** milk and cookies.
CptSaveAho Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 ....................... means absolutely nothing must be nice getting an ego boost out of thin air, you should bottle it up and sell it... name it "5 hour ego boost" ..................... 2
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 ....................... means absolutely nothing must be nice getting an ego boost out of thin air, you should bottle it up and sell it... name it "5 hour ego boost" ..................... I don't know, I've been perfectly fine for over a week now At this point, it's just icing on the cake.
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Dude.. You know how rich we'd be!!?! we'll start by selling mis-measured/printed rulers OP, it's always great to hear an ex is doing ****ty.. not sure how her being entangled in a guy is great news. But, go with it? I guess?! Only because she's trying to recreate me through him. Up until she met him she was still crying on the phone with me about the breakup. There is always something positive to take from most situations, as long as you stop looking for the negative.
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Confusing thread is confusing. Just the way I like it~
DougRyan25 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Well, good for you that something like that makes you feel better dude. But I suggest to try to focus less on the misery of other people and see how things go for you at present. Every individual should be respected, and it is best to hope that each and everyone ends with what they want. It was just an unfortunate that you and your ex(es) weren't meant to be. 1
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Well, good for you that something like that makes you feel better dude. But I suggest to try to focus less on the misery of other people and see how things go for you at present. Every individual should be respected, and it is best to hope that each and everyone ends with what they want. It was just an unfortunate that you and your ex(es) weren't meant to be. I do not focus on the misery of other people, I just took away a positive view on myself from all of this. If the guy ends up marrying her and living happily ever after, then good for them. I'll find mine too eventually.
Tiera D Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 well i felt good when my ex broke NC and cried wanting to be friends or whatever,it felt even better when i said we could be friends of course and straight closed my phone.That ego boost lasted me all week TD
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