jona Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 (edited) I’ll keep things short. Here's the scenario: I got together with a girl a month after she broke off with her ex. We were together for approx. 6 months but there were problems in our relationship. First, she couldn't let go of her ex and her past. Second, she feels that we can't communicate and that is one of the reasons why she thinks we can't move on further. And since then, we had many quarrels and misunderstanding and through that, I think she has formed a negative impression of me and think of me as childish. There were many times that she said she needed space and all. So one day, I have decided to go no contact with her. But because we are in the same sport, we saw each other last week during the competition. After the competition, the team decided to chill out at a wine bar, and she decided that she should go for it (She doesn’t like to drink). And so I saw her at the wine bar with other team mates. Hanged out together with friends and everything was fine. After a while, I realised her ex came and pick her up. This morning, when I saw her, I realised she was holding on to his IPAD which she returned to him after they broke up. Also when she realised I deleted her off facebook, she made a big fuss and says she is going to quit the sport that we are in.I spoke to her a few mins ago, she told me not to assume anything and that she is not together with him. Does she think that although we can’t be together, we still can hang out together as friends? Please advice on what I should do, thanks. Edited November 5, 2012 by jona
Author jona Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Thanks will. I think she is together with him too but she doesn't want to admit it. How would she allow him to even send her home? use his stuffs and all? Problem is, because we are in the same sports, sometimes we do need to contact each other. What should I do? It sucks real bad.
Author jona Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 And so if we have broken up on mutual terms?what should I be doing? Im just wondering. Right now, you think its possible for me to get her back? as a girlfriend? Can i do anything?
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