NateC Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Okay so...I finally mustered up the courage to tell this girl that I've been talking to for about a month that I did like her and wanted to know if she did as well..the answer wasn't a no, but it wasn't a yes either. It was more because it hasn't really progressed beyond the friendship stage, so she doesn't really know if anything will come of it. What I need help with is pushing beyond this point before I lose her. Seeing how I've never dated before any advice is welcomed. I do like her...but I need help getting the ball rolling.
Car10e Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 When you're talking to her, ask her if she'd like to get dinner.You'll know if she's interested or not based on her answer.
Author NateC Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 When you're talking to her, ask her if she'd like to get dinner.You'll know if she's interested or not based on her answer. I actually talked to her about planning when to meet next - we both have very hectic schedules (she works at a restaurant so it's like 6 days/week) and I have my own job, but she's willing to plan something and talk, so I think I have a shot. My issue is just getting the conversations going.
Car10e Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I actually talked to her about planning when to meet next - we both have very hectic schedules (she works at a restaurant so it's like 6 days/week) and I have my own job, but she's willing to plan something and talk, so I think I have a shot. My issue is just getting the conversations going. Ask her what she likes to do for fun, or what kinds of movies she likes, or what her favorite food is. Remember what she says and use it for your date(s).
Author NateC Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 Ask her what she likes to do for fun, or what kinds of movies she likes, or what her favorite food is. Remember what she says and use it for your date(s). Yeah - I think I get that part now...sometimes it's the basics that escape me We went to the movies tonight - the movie itself was lame - but I enjoyed the time with her anyway. She hates scary movies but still went to one (Paranormal Activity 4 is by far not scary, fyi).
Author NateC Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Well...an update. She texted me tonight and told me she doesn't think of me more than a friend. That's that I guess.
Author NateC Posted November 16, 2012 Author Posted November 16, 2012 Free movie ticket for her. LOL She paid for her own, so not really. I can't really say I'm surprised. I didn't really feel like she did like me but just wanted someone to hang out with. I noticed that since I told her that I did like her the conversations were much shorter and I had to initiate them more - a sign I ignored. Oh well.
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