I don't know .

[JustSomeChick]

I was texting my boyfriend and we got into a little fight and when I was trying to move on from the conversation he said "I'm getting my phone taken away bye" and I started wondering if he just said that so he wouldn't have to talk to me anymore so on my iPod I downloaded this app that I could text and texted him with a different number so I could see if he was lying to me about getting his phone taken away. I texted hey is this..... And my boyfriends name. And I get a reply saying why. I got mad that he lied so I decided to play a little prank on him I told him I liked him and gave a fake name and asked if he had a girlfriend. He said he didn't have one and that's when I exploded. I said ******* denying you have a girl hurts you know? I happen to know your girl and I'm gonna tell her you deny your relationship with her. And his like ok go ahead tell her this isn't (bf name) this is his brother. And I was like stop lying you just don't want me to tell her. And his like you can go ahead and tell her he didn't deny his girl anyway so no problem. Next morning I get a text from his brother saying that my brother got his phone taken away so he fell asleep but he was awake and hear his phone ring and that's when he saw the MSG. I told him I got a text too saying that he didn't really love me and to watch out who I go out with and he said he said that my bf was gonna get so mad and wouldn't stop looking for the person that texted him that until he finds them. I'm scared what if he finds out it was me?? I really shouldn't have doubted him. I don't know why I'm so insecure when he has shown me im the one he loves. Help please?? How can I be less insecure I really need to change and I don't want to lose him

[River Rain]

Why so distrustful? Why try to make trouble where it doesn't exist? I don't understand this behaviour. Sweetheart, you have to work on your insecurity. If online snooping and stalking didn't exist, would you have hired a private detective on him? If you decide to come clean and be honest, he has the right to resent you and distrust you. If you hide away, you will feel anxious with guilt. Why did you do something so foolish?

[ImperfectionisBeauty]

Ok I'm sorry but that is CRAZY childish.. like really. I'm assuming you are younger like a teen? My brothers girlfriend would do something like that and she is 16. I think you need to realize if he is with you he obviously loves you, don't overthink things it screws you over believe me I know.

[JustSomeChick]

Yeah im young. Im 16. And well I wouldn't consider myself pretty. I have so many flaws that I sometimes wonder why he's with me. I've been with this guy almost a year and its been great but we had a problem and we broke up but he asked me out again so I took him back. So many people told me I was stupid for taking him back but I love him and he loves me so it doesn't matter what they say. I have always been insecure about everything and I wanted to know how I could change that? And also he is really cute so a lot of girls have asked him out and are always checking him out and calling him handsome. But he always turns them down and ignores them even though Im not with him. I want to be a better person for him but I'm just jealous that so many girls like him and they're prettier than me.

[mammasita]

Pretty girls end up with *******s and get cheated on too. Being a model or Hollywood pretty does not guarantee anything.

 

Learn to love yourself. Self confidence lasts forever. Do some research on line or at the library, look for books about improving your self image and self esteem.