snilljente Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 I met someone incredible...he was warm, understanding, giving, funny, reliable, etc.......now he has not returned my messages for days.....even though the last few times we talked he said that he did not want to break up. How does someone go from being so good to being a complete stranger. I cannot get him to respond to me and I thought that I really had met someone who was "different". Am I just a bad judge of character or are others having these same issues in their relationships.....I feel like I may never be able to trust again...there are just so many layers of pain (not just due to him, but my experience with him has definitely been the icing on the cake). Input?!
Author snilljente Posted August 3, 2004 Author Posted August 3, 2004 We were dating, exclusively,...because I don't work during the summer and he works nights mainly, we were together all of the time......we got very close, met each others' families several times.....shared feelings like he said he had only felt this way about someone once before in his life...etc....we talked last a few days ago...I was very upset (crying on the phone) and made an excuse that my mom was trying to get through to me and that I would be home later that night if he wanted to talk then...he hasn't called since and has not responded to my numerous messages about wanting to hear from him and missing him. Thing is, he may be going to jail next week....this was his original reason for space about a week and a half ago.....but we were still communicating via text and the occasional phone call...he said he doesn't want to see me upset and doesn't want to get any closer to me if he has to go away for a few months...my response...we need to support each other through the hard times, not push each other away.
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