indecisive85 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I broke up with my girlfriend of almost three years yesterday. I didn't feel like it was working...however in retrospect, I never really gave it my all. I feel as though she really loved me. We have lived apart for some time due to her job and I have seen her on most weekends. Lately I have just felt confused and wasn't sure if it was what I wanted. But ever since I can remember I've always had a 'grass is greener' outlook and that couldn't fully commit. How do I ever get over this? I'm worried I'll always think like this and sabotage future relationships...anyone feel similar to this? Anyone got over this? I just don't know if breaking up was a mistake and with some sort of change in myself I could have made it work?? Thanks for your help x
Sameold Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 It is possible you did make a mistake and many people with GIGS syndrome have made many a mistake and thrown away many an important person/relationship, often to end up with less fulfilling, less emotionally engaged relationships that they eventually have to settle for after the honeymoon period. Thing is it is done now, we all make mistakes and sometimes they are bigger than others. If at some point you really realise you have screwed up there's only one thing you can do and that's to tell the person providing they are still available. Sometimes we **** up but it shouldn't mean our life is over. You need to get back out there and make your future positive again.
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