dreamstate83 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Time spent growing and learning as a person is never wasted. Every good deed, every mistake, every action taken is an action that defines who you are. The best books are the ones that have a full range of emotion - happiness, love, sadness, regret, victory, defeat. Decorate the story of your life with the pen strokes of an artist, and breath in every page as the next chapter unfolds. Look back at the literary work of who you were, and know that you are in a better place now because of it. 2
sissy106 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 To be true, my story is going like a novel too. Whatever wierd things or wonderfull things I have ever heard or seen in my life time, either in movies or in books, are actually happening with me too in real life. I am the only person among my friends whose like is going aboslutely unexpected... and I dont know why God have chosen me among the people around me to take all these kind of experiences.
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 To be true, my story is going like a novel too. Whatever wierd things or wonderfull things I have ever heard or seen in my life time, either in movies or in books, are actually happening with me too in real life. I am the only person among my friends whose like is going aboslutely unexpected... and I dont know why God have chosen me among the people around me to take all these kind of experiences. Be thankful that you have these experiences. Imagine a singer who can't hit the highs and lows and only conveys a flat tone until they retire, and then imagine one who's voice could change the course of the world forever. It is the bittersweet gift of having the fullest and deepest life anyone can live. 1
Crusoe Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Life is a book Yeah, just try not to read the last page before the first. It'll spoil the surprise. 1
sissy106 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Be thankful that you have these experiences. Imagine a singer who can't hit the highs and lows and only conveys a flat tone until they retire, and then imagine one who's voice could change the course of the world forever. It is the bittersweet gift of having the fullest and deepest life anyone can live. I agree with you. But I am tired of being the odd one. Now I want to live a normal life like the others are living. I dont know why these things are happening with me, am I taking wrong decisions everytime, or do I have less analysis power so that I am not able to forsee the outcome of my decisions. I feel as if I am too dumb and have lost some good chances in life. Or all other people around me are too smart and that is why they are leading a normal life.
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 (edited) I agree with you. But I am tired of being the odd one. Now I want to live a normal life like the others are living. I dont know why these things are happening with me, am I taking wrong decisions everytime, or do I have less analysis power so that I am not able to forsee the outcome of my decisions. I feel as if I am too dumb and have lost some good chances in life. Or all other people around me are too smart and that is why they are leading a normal life. It's often times the ones with the biggest hearts that suffer the most. After all, we are the ones who have more to lose. At the end of the story, it is us who become irreplaceable by those who see the gift we've been given. Stay strong. Edited November 4, 2012 by dreamstate83
sissy106 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Yeah thats the positive side of it. This reminds me of my old friend who said to me 6 years ago that for me she feels that "my Ignorence is my Blessing" coz most of the times when people were bitching bout others or were making some cunning plans I was not able to understand it. And I used to be friendly with everyone around, without knowing who cares for me and who do not. So in that way I was always happy, at peace and that is why my this friend told me that its good for me in some sense that I am not able to understand complex things going around. But my ordeal with my ex, today has made me an aware person. My ex was too clever, intelligent, but emotionless fellow. He used to demand explanations from me whenever he used to get annoyed from me..... and can u imagine, he used to make me explain things to him all night. I always used to get trapped in his words... but that all proved out to be a big lesson for me. After all those long sessions of explanations and arguments with him, I have become a good debater and analyser now, or atleast now I am aware of all that is cooking up around me. I do remember in our first year of relationship he always used to analyse many things and always told me that i lack that ability. Yes, I am on learning process... but screw me, after all that happened I miss him everyday till now.
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