Jamesblame Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Hi all. Sometimes we think of our exes and how much we want to be with them (ok, in the first year, usually quite a bit!) It really helped me to come up with a list of my life w/ ex vs w/o ex. And it made me feel much better. Here's my two lists and I thought it would be fun if everyone made one for themselves: Life w/o Ex: Get road bike Go climbing/hiking more often change career healthy body gym membership Midtown (college/fun/trendy) neighborhood roommates (a plus for me) New friends More money Total freedom Happy and optimistic New Lover (younger, tighter, more buxom, lol) Denver SF NY Life W/ Ex Small town Deal with her drunkenness sloppy unhealthy gf bitchy high rent, lots of freeway driving fighting complaining Deal with her terrible finances un affectionate settling But there would be comfort, I wouldn't have to try new things, just continue the inertia of an unhealthy, unsatisfying life. Life with my ex means living her life, while alone or with a better partner I would get to live my life and share it with someone great. What are yours?
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