flirty eyes

[itcouldhappen]

So you'd rather have another dad "protect" you?

 

This is such a horrible situation.

All over your boobs.

 

Maybe you should change schools.

 

Sorry I graduated like, 15 years ago. ha! Another presumption.

 

No actually, I'd rather have another guy, possibly pull the coach aside and say "hey, it's not cool"...or something like that. I'm trying to think of a way not to approach him myself without getting my husband involved.

 

But I think I might take whichwayisup's helpful advice and tell him anyhow.

[whichwayisup]

But then I think he would be worried for me if he wasn't there.

 

Or are you saying (is it possible) he may mistrust you and think something else? I find it hard to believe that your H would worry that much about you all over boob staring by one of the dad's.

 

Does he think you can't handle anything on your own and he has to protect you in other parts of your life/marriage? Like you're not capable of certain things?

Just tryin to figure out why you think your H would worry so much.

[itcouldhappen]

Or are you saying (is it possible) he may mistrust you and think something else? I find it hard to believe that your H would worry that much about you all over boob staring by one of the dad's.

 

Does he think you can't handle anything on your own and he has to protect you in other parts of your life/marriage? Like you're not capable of certain things?

Just tryin to figure out why you think your H would worry so much.

 

He's just protective. Of me, the kids. I've been sick for a few years. That he might not think of me as being entirely capable? I've just started to feel stronger and taking on more responsibility with the kids (ie. activities...etc).

[itcouldhappen]

Oh and he's never had reason to mistrust me. Not in the least. Gosh I've been so busy with the kids/illness, that there's no chance my every move hasn't been accounted for.

[Saba]

I cannot see any good coming from talking to one of the other dads. It seems to me that would create more drama. This really should not be such a big deal. I have no idea why you are putting this much time into it.

 

What should you do? - well, whatever you are comfortable with ie. make a joke, glare, put your hand over your chest etc

Why does he do it? - he likes the look of your rack

What does this all mean? - not alot

Tell h or not? - why not? He probably likes your rack too. No big deal.

[itcouldhappen]

I cannot see any good coming from talking to one of the other dads. It seems to me that would create more drama. This really should not be such a big deal. I have no idea why you are putting this much time into it.

 

What should you do? - well, whatever you are comfortable with ie. make a joke, glare, put your hand over your chest etc

Why does he do it? - he likes the look of your rack

What does this all mean? - not alot

Tell h or not? - why not? He probably likes your rack too. No big deal.

 

thanks for the feedback. I've been thinking too about that (by the way, the idea came to me while typing these messages)...but you are right, getting another person involved is stupid. I guess I just don't want to face this myself.

 

I guess it's not a big deal. I've had some time to surf around this site, and clearly there are bigger more serious issues out there. I mean, it's just boob staring. Really.

 

Do you remember being a teenager, and every little thing seems like a big deal, and then your an adult and it's like, seriously, I was worried about that? That kinda how I feel about this.

 

And definitely have decided to tell my husband. Cause what's the worse that could happen right?

[itcouldhappen]

Thanks lady grey for your insight... I'm on my phone now and off to sleep, but your posts have helped!! Night y'all

[William]

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