mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Why is he wanting "one more" time with me when he is with this new girlfriend? Why would he even contemplate it? I dont think they have been together officially very long, maybe a few weeks, i am not sure how long ago they met or how long its been brewing with her Is he not getting enough from her? Thinks maybe he made a mistake? We haven't even had sex for 8 months Its cheating , and well as a consolation at least i know that if we had had a proper relationship he would have cheated on me anyway, or at least thought about it
blue_jay_bird Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Wow, wait...what. He has the f-ing nerve to ask for "one more" time. Even if he wasn't getting it. I would tell him were to stick it. 1
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 yes, one last time , so after that, nothing, just a final time. Imagine if i actually did that, he'd leave and go home to his "proper" girlfriend leaving me to imagine what he is doing to her
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 i know that it would never be the last time. What would happen would be i would be the other woman. Its all so ironic seeing as though he knew i was waiting for him that whole time he was backwards and forwards with that job of his. He KNEW i was waiting and not sleeping with other people because i was devoted to him And teh reward i get? One last time and probably lots of future times when his girlfriend isnt wanting sex or somthing. The other woman!!!
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 the more i think about it all, the angrier i get
theLWord Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 That's so disrespectful to you. Like you will be so lucky to be graced with his presence "one last time." It just shows how low his morals are and that he's indeed a cheater. Tell him to F**k off. He won't treat her any better if he's already trying to cheat on her. I wouldn't want to have sex with my ex now especially thinking of her having sex with someone else. (I don't know this but it grosses me out and I would assume she was lying if I asked.) Don't be a booty call. Sounds so awful and disconnected. You would feel so used. Sorry you were with such a messed up person.
theLWord Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Oh yeah, I don't think even the best sex is worth ever being "the other woman." You can probably do it just as good if not better yourself! He's a scumbag.
todreaminblue Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Why is he wanting "one more" time with me when he is with this new girlfriend? Why would he even contemplate it? I dont think they have been together officially very long, maybe a few weeks, i am not sure how long ago they met or how long its been brewing with her Is he not getting enough from her? Thinks maybe he made a mistake? We haven't even had sex for 8 months Its cheating , and well as a consolation at least i know that if we had had a proper relationship he would have cheated on me anyway, or at least thought about it Memories can be powerful incentives to repeat history....sometimes its closure....sometimes its because they know they stuffed up and let something really good go......deb
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 That's so disrespectful to you. Like you will be so lucky to be graced with his presence "one last time." It just shows how low his morals are and that he's indeed a cheater. Tell him to F**k off. He won't treat her any better if he's already trying to cheat on her. I wouldn't want to have sex with my ex now especially thinking of her having sex with someone else. (I don't know this but it grosses me out and I would assume she was lying if I asked.) Don't be a booty call. Sounds so awful and disconnected. You would feel so used. Sorry you were with such a messed up person. yeah its gross. So he would have sex with me then go home and do her. YUCK. it makes me feel a bit better knowing that he will treat her like sh$t and it wasn't just me. Imagine if she knew this was going on in his head.
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 Memories can be powerful incentives to repeat history....sometimes its closure....sometimes its because they know they stuffed up and let something really good go......deb he definately let something good go (me!!!). He just hasn't realised it. 1
theLWord Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 yeah its gross. So he would have sex with me then go home and do her. YUCK. it makes me feel a bit better knowing that he will treat her like sh$t and it wasn't just me. Imagine if she knew this was going on in his head. Yeah I think knowing that the person won't change suddenly and be a great person to the other is somewhat healing in itself.
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 Yeah I think knowing that the person won't change suddenly and be a great person to the other is somewhat healing in itself. i have been telling myself all this past 3 weeks that he will treat her badly too, but wasnt really believing it til now. 1
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 3 weeks ago today he told me about her. Its been such an awful three weeks, i never want to experience that again i should never have got so attached to someone who was only a FWB
Own Worst Enemy Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 But don't blame yourself for getting so attached. That is who you are, and it means you are capable of deep genuine feelings that will one day be for the right person. And when they are, you won't care about this douche any more! Just a slightly finer filter process next time and you'll be fine in the end...
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 But don't blame yourself for getting so attached. That is who you are, and it means you are capable of deep genuine feelings that will one day be for the right person. And when they are, you won't care about this douche any more! Just a slightly finer filter process next time and you'll be fine in the end... It still hurts though, when i wake up in the morning and wonder if he is in bed with her. I dont know anything about her, and so now my mind is playing tricks. Last night i had a dream that his girlfriend was Emily Blunt (??!!) and she was making gooey faces at him..... I was there behind him and wanted to strut in front of him but I wasn't properly dressed, i was in my underpants?? But Emily Blunt was dressed in corporate attire and looked fab. ugh. This is what happens when you have no info on teh other person! thats the first dream ive had about it
Tree_Salmon Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 It still hurts though, when i wake up in the morning and wonder if he is in bed with her. I dont know anything about her, and so now my mind is playing tricks. Last night i had a dream that his girlfriend was Emily Blunt (??!!) and she was making gooey faces at him..... I was there behind him and wanted to strut in front of him but I wasn't properly dressed, i was in my underpants?? But Emily Blunt was dressed in corporate attire and looked fab. ugh. This is what happens when you have no info on teh other person! thats the first dream ive had about it He probably is in be with her and just wants to use you one last time. Don't fall for it. This is a great sign of who he really is.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Why does it matter who the other person is or what they are like? All you know is that they aren't you. And that's all that matters. Who the other person is is completely irrelevant and thinking about it is counterproductive and self-defeating.
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 Why does it matter who the other person is or what they are like? All you know is that they aren't you. And that's all that matters. Who the other person is is completely irrelevant and thinking about it is counterproductive and self-defeating. ofcourse i am going to wonder
Simon Phoenix Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 ofcourse i am going to wonder There's no point. It's completely irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is that you and him are no longer an item. She does not matter. All it is an excuse for you to cling to him.
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 we were never a proper item the past 5 years anyway. Just FWB
Simon Phoenix Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 we were never a proper item the past 5 years anyway. Just FWB Either way, point remains the same, if not becomes more relevant.
Leigh 87 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Dude, You really, really really have to stop giving this jerk the time of day! He just wants sex from you; you have feelings for him so he has probably had enough of dealing with your feelings, but wants one last f*ck before he ignores you. And he would probably still get horny and feel like sex with you in the future too; hopein that he could get his sex, and that you would hopefully stop liking you and contacting you after.
Leigh 87 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 It is incredibly saddening that you have been hung up over a guy for this long, when he has no respect for you and does not care about you at all. .... You sound like a very lovely women! However, I it BAFFLES me that you are hung up over a guy who cares so little about you! ...I have NO idea how you can be attracted and like a guy like him! With me, I simply cannot feel "it" with a guy unless they are into me; otherwise, what is the appeal or purpose of giving yourself to an unavailable guy? I simply cannot get aroused by a man who is a horrible person and treats me like crap, let alone LIKE him and be hung up over him. unless I have a connection with him and he is into me. Otherwise I just admire his body and that is it, without any genuine connection. 1
taya Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Why is he wanting "one more" time with me when he is with this new girlfriend? Why would he even contemplate it? I dont think they have been together officially very long, maybe a few weeks, i am not sure how long ago they met or how long its been brewing with her Is he not getting enough from her? Thinks maybe he made a mistake? We haven't even had sex for 8 months Its cheating , and well as a consolation at least i know that if we had had a proper relationship he would have cheated on me anyway, or at least thought about it omg omg hes worst then we thought this man have know know know respect for you hes been useing you its very clear now it was only sex for him sorry to say hes treating you like your nothing about one more time i would have cuss this dirty ass out ..and it dosent matter if hss not getting enoght from her if he wasent why would he still be with her or chose to be with her and not you..he is just messing with you and plz plz dont text him or talk to this man again and dont answer his texts or call he his one dirty dog omg
taya Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 It is incredibly saddening that you have been hung up over a guy for this long, when he has no respect for you and does not care about you at all. .... You sound like a very lovely women! However, I it BAFFLES me that you are hung up over a guy who cares so little about you! ...I have NO idea how you can be attracted and like a guy like him! With me, I simply cannot feel "it" with a guy unless they are into me; otherwise, what is the appeal or purpose of giving yourself to an unavailable guy? I simply cannot get aroused by a man who is a horrible person and treats me like crap, let alone LIKE him and be hung up over him. unless I have a connection with him and he is into me. Otherwise I just admire his body and that is it, without any genuine connection. wow so sad but true this man is the worst of the worst my body would not even allow me to like someone like that ..hes treating her like she is nothing like she dont have feelings like she is not a humam been this hurts me and its not even me this guy is treating like this ..but MISTY MISTY GIRL WAKE UP GIRL TIME TO STOP SLEEPING WAKE UP
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