jayy23 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 So today is a really sad day I woke up to find out that Mitch lucker of suicide silence passed away after a motorcycle accident he is a massive inspiration to me personally and to so many more people also. He was 28 and I'm devastated to say the least he was a father and a husband. Now this has really made me take a big look at my life and I'm so sick of taking life for granted it's far to short to be holding stupid grudges. Now I know I'm upset from what has happend but as I said life's to short to go on holding grudges so after 4months of NC I'm goina send my ex a message and tell her I forgive her and that I don't want to be imature about things because there really is no need. If she wants to be friends then I'm fine with that but if not I'm fine with that to but I don't want her thinking I hate her because I don't. If your goina say something to someone say it because you never know what's around the corner. R.I.P MITCH LUCKER. 1
ParadeRain Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 You're making a mistake, Almost EVERYBODY on the planet experiences why we are all here on this site in the first place, The art of breaking up has been studied and refined to a T... People tell you cut her from your life with complete NC because IT WORKS, Somebody who you admire has passed away(R.I.P Mitch, very cool guy), but that does not mean you should contact your ex girlfriend due to an emotional outburst of humble wisdom and inspiration... In the morning you will wake up, snapped back to reality and lacking the enthusiasm for the inspiration you had yesterday... and realize that contacting your ex was a huge mistake.
Own Worst Enemy Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 The way to life it to the full is not to reach backwards to an ex who hasn't contacted you in 4 months, but to reach forwards to the future, surely?
Tiera D Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Another stupid selve-made reason to break no contact TD
Nik1 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 You're making a mistake, Several if you count his grammar.
ImYours Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Do what you have to do. NC is good but if you feel like you can handle the situation either way then do it. We all say nc but every situation is different and life is too short.
Simon Phoenix Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 So some musician offs himself and you are using this to contact your ex in a desperate manner? That's a creative way to break NC, I'll give you that. So every time someone who is a father and a husband dies, you are going to contact your ex?
Author jayy23 Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 So some musician offs himself and you are using this to contact your ex in a desperate manner? That's a creative way to break NC, I'll give you that. So every time someone who is a father and a husband dies, you are going to contact your ex? 1. He didnt off himself it was a motorcycle ACCIDENT. 2. Desperate wouldn't even come into it. And to answer your last question NO. There's so many disrespectfull people on this site with such a negative attitude it's unreal. If I was to contact her it would be because I just wanted to say I don't hate her it was not to ask her to contact me in anyway.
strummgirl Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Inspiration isn't something to be ignored. If it ended on bad terms, I really believe it's good to show forgiveness when you genuinely feel that way (4 months a good stretch of time to reflect). Just consider your true intention and consider all consequences. If you can deal with the reply / non-reply / a friendship, then go for it.
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