Guest Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a half a year now, and I like her a lot. Recently she just returned from a camp that she was away at for about a month, and she just got back yesterday. I was really looking forward to getting together with her, and I invited her over. When she arrived, she was fine, but in a more private setting, became distressed, depressed and well..... a little suicidal. I pressed her for what was wrong and eventually she said that she didn't want to hurt me. I pressed her further, and she told me that she was going to tell me something and that I was going to need to make a decision. While she was away at the camp, she made out with another guy. I asked her a few questions, didn't press her too hard, and forgave her. but, I was thinking about it today and I was wondering what you think. also, should I press for more details? note: she said that she probably would break up with someone who did the same thing to her, but don't consider this in all of your opinions
Love2BLoved Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 Originally posted by Guest When she arrived, she was fine, but in a more private setting, became distressed, depressed and well..... a little suicidal. I pressed her for what was wrong and eventually she said that she didn't want to hurt me. I asked her a few questions, didn't press her too hard, and forgave her. but, I was thinking about it today and I was wondering what you think. also, should I press for more details? note: she said that she probably would break up with someone who did the same thing to her, but don't consider this in all of your opinions What do you mean she was even suicidal? If it's that bad maybe you should tell her to go to counseling or offer to go with her. As for pressing her for more info maybe that's not a good idea right now if she's in such a bad state of mind.
guest Posted August 3, 2004 Posted August 3, 2004 well, like I said, she said that she didn't want to hurt me, and once I forgave her, she was feeling much better. I do sincerely forgive her now; I was just with her again last night, and she is back to her normal self; but she is also worried about our future together. Admittedly, this is a high school relationship, and when we eventually decide which way to go when one of us goes to college, if we decide to break up, she doesn't want to hurt me. Since this will happen next year, I said that we should just wait until then to decide.
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