musemaj11 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 To me sex is not something thats as sentimental as a lot people seem to make it to be. I remember the person I had a one night stand with as much as I remember someone I met somewhere and had a little chat with or had a coffee with. Sex is totally overrated.
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 To me sex is not something thats as sentimental as a lot people seem to make it to be. I remember the person I had a one night stand with as much as I remember someone I met somewhere and had a little chat with or had a coffee with. Sex is totally overrated. Translation: I'm a horrible lover. 1
Jane2011 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I've had sex with 12 people. I remember their faces, their first and last names, their dates of birth (and hence, their zodiac signs), their professions, their personalities, etc. I've had sex with two Leos, one Taurus, one Scorpio, two Geminis, three Capricorns, and three Virgos, lol... One of these men (one of the Capricorns), I did have sex with while a bit inebriated, but it wasn't "can't remember anything" inebriated. It was pretty well after alcohol had worn off; I knew what I was doing and what he was like. He's someone I'd have had sex with completely sober, too. He was also my one and only one night stand. The rest I either dated for a while or they were long-term boyfriends.
SmileFace Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I've had sex with 12 people. I remember their faces, their first and last names, their dates of birth (and hence, their zodiac signs), their professions, their personalities, etc. I've had sex with two Leos, one Taurus, one Scorpio, two Geminis, three Capricorns, and three Virgos, lol... One of these men (one of the Capricorns), I did have sex with while a bit inebriated, but it wasn't "can't remember anything" inebriated. It was pretty well after alcohol had worn off; I knew what I was doing and what he was like. He's someone I'd have had sex with completely sober, too. He was also my one and only one night stand. The rest I either dated for a while or they were long-term boyfriends. You are better than me I can't even remember ex-boyfriends(2) birthdays. Let alone their signs. The only guy I have dated who birthday I actually remember vaguely is the guy I most recently dated - because he tended to always mention it and also called me on his birthday to tell me it was his birthday. I am really not good at those things. 1
Jane2011 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 You are better than me I can't even remember ex-boyfriends(2) birthdays. Let alone their signs. The only guy I have dated who birthday I actually remember vaguely is the guy I most recently dated - because he tended to always mention it and also called me on his birthday to tell me it was his birthday. I am really not good at those things. lol, it's just one of those things I remember...birthdays, that is. It's probably because I, right or wrong, place some stock in zodiac signs, so I'm always remembering... I remember a lot about ex-involvements in general. I've had some boyfriends who I didn't even sleep with, and I remember a lot about them, too. I just remember people I was involved with. Anyway, addressing the OP, I'm not extremely sanctimonious about sex, but I don't have it with just anyone either. I think I'll always remember men who were inside me / making love to me, lol...
2sure Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 A tattoo? You cant remember a guy who gets your name tattooed on your arm? wow. I know , it seems crazy. But I am ver 40 have had a...colorful life? But seriously, I can't help but think what man gets the name of a woman he isn't married to or living with or ...whatever, on his arm. Thats more crazy.
EasyHeart Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I've had sex with 12 people. I remember their faces, their first and last names, their dates of birth (and hence, their zodiac signs), their professions, their personalities, etc. I've had sex with two Leos, one Taurus, one Scorpio, two Geminis, three Capricorns, and three Virgos, lol... One of these men (one of the Capricorns), I did have sex with while a bit inebriated, but it wasn't "can't remember anything" inebriated. It was pretty well after alcohol had worn off; I knew what I was doing and what he was like. He's someone I'd have had sex with completely sober, too. He was also my one and only one night stand. The rest I either dated for a while or they were long-term boyfriends.What, no Aries?!?! That means you've never had sex.
Jane2011 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 What, no Aries?!?! That means you've never had sex. lol.... I've liked a couple of Aries. And one of them I dated, but he was a virgin and didn't want to do it. Horror! I'd have to say that amongst those zodiac signs I've bedded, one of the Capricorns was the most wild, one of the Leos was the most able to do it over and over (don't remember what the word is for that), and one of the Virgos was most just all-around good.
musemaj11 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 Translation: I'm a horrible lover. Lol, how did u even come to that conclusion? Look, whether something means anything or nothing is up to the person who thinks it. For example for some peole wearing shoes into the house is a disrespect while for others its no biggie. To me people whom I have had sex with are no less or more memorable than people whom I have gotten to know and never had sex with. Sex in itself is something casual for me. Its the person not the fact that she had sex with me that decides whether I would feel memorable special connection with her or not.
ScreamingTrees Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I can't recall the last person I'd had sex with, perhaps it was in a past life. I'll have to consult a hypnotist, see what can be found.
2.50 a gallon Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 The number of my partners runs into the triple digits, many of them one night stands, of which I remember zip. The one partner I remember the most was a gal who I worked with. She was only 22 and had already been married twice and both guys had left her. She was a black haired beauty, with all of the right equipment in the right proportions. In bed she was a super star, the best ever, nobody came close. The first time was an all nighter, which left me wondering why would any man walk away from that. I found out the next morning, when I tried to give her a morning kiss and hug, and got rejected with a "Sex, That's all you men think of" Once a month the screaming purple hornies would hit her, and it would be katie bar the door for the next several hours, after which, there was no touching, cuddling, kissing, hugging for the next month. I dumped her after 4 months. But was left with a desire to find someone that good in bed to spend the rest of my life with. Which is part of the reason that I had so many partners. The only way to find out was to give her a test drive.
Emilia Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I think I would remember/recognise all of them yes. They were all unique in some way and I liked all of them. Saw my very first boyfriend (went out 21 years ago) a couple of years ago and recognised him straight away.
Emilia Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 In bed she was a super star, the best ever, nobody came close. The first time was an all nighter, which left me wondering why would any man walk away from that. I found out the next morning, when I tried to give her a morning kiss and hug, and got rejected with a "Sex, That's all you men think of" Once a month the screaming purple hornies would hit her, and it would be katie bar the door for the next several hours, after which, there was no touching, cuddling, kissing, hugging for the next month. I dumped her after 4 months. But was left with a desire to find someone that good in bed to spend the rest of my life with. Which is part of the reason that I had so many partners. Congratulations, she had BPD. They do indeed make the best lovers, they are also completely insane.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I remember everyone I had sex with. All zero of them. A long list I know...
Drseussgrrl Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I'm currently sleeping with someone whose last name I don't know. So yeah. I just texted him and asked. LOL
pteromom Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 I REMEMBER all of them, but I doubt I would recognize a couple of them. I mean, I look a lot different than I did at 25, so I would assume they do too. If a guy I slept with at 25 is now bald and 50 pounds heavier, why WOULD I recognize him? 1
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